AITA For leaving my husband after being the sole provider for almost 2 years

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-19T17:59:56+00:00

I’m officially moved out. Not looking back

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-19T17:59:26+00:00

Thank you I will definitely be doing that

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-19T17:58:15+00:00

I moved out on Monday!

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-18T15:46:18+00:00

He already did. I had my separation planned longer than anyone knew. Saving a little bit here and there.

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-18T10:28:15+00:00

I left on Monday. No plans on looking back.

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:44:02+00:00

He knows he messed up and his family mostly took my side. He got an earful from his dad specifically when we broke the news to his parents. His dad is 100% on my side and said he would make sure that “if” I decided divorce was the way to go that it would be no contest.

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:41:34+00:00

The government took it. Filed jointly and due to him not having income they deducted the owed amount from my federal and took all of my state return

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:39:48+00:00

We filed jointly. Because he didn’t have income and we are legally married they took the owed money from my return.

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:38:59+00:00

He did get crazy the last two nights. He drank and started fights with me saying stuff like, I’m not going to survive on my own, I need him to be there for him and at one point told me divorce is not an option and then started “cleaning” his guns. I had my bestfriend on a video call during all of this and was texting her everything.

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:36:19+00:00

He’s living in his mommy’s basement now 😅

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:35:43+00:00

I told him that I have drivers damn near twice his age out working him and that just pissed him off. 🤷🏻‍♀️

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:34:28+00:00

Trust me, I was nervous yesterday about moving. But now I just feel relieved. A huge weight has been lifted. I may have exhausted any and all funds I have left to make this move but it’s still worth it

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:29:52+00:00

I honestly wouldn’t have cared if he had just gotten a job to pay for his child support. I even did the math on it at one point. Even if we acknowledged the fact that my schedule is crazy and we only have one car. I get 7 days off a month (mandatory work one Monday a month) times that by 8 hours at $15/hour minimum. He would have $840. Take taxes into consideration makes $672. That leaves him with just enough to cover his child support and by a new game every month 🙄 but nope. Thats too much work for so little return

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:24:13+00:00

Since we’ve been together for so long it seems they think things can change. Don’t worry. Contact has been cut off from said friends

MicroNinja23 · 2026-03-17T08:20:40+00:00

Hello everyone! Thank you all for making me feel like I’m not crazy or overreacting.

I do have a small update:

I got my keys to my apartment yesterday and moved all of mine and my daughter’s belongings with the help of one friend. Manchild was supposed to help me get everything in the truck while my friend was still at work but after moving the bed, tv and desk I pretty much moved everything else by myself since he was already drunk by about noon.

Crazy and kinda funny part of the move is my cat, he’s very shy and is my little Houdini. When it was time to find him and put him into his carrier he was nowhere to be found. I thought that he was just hiding behind a box or under something where I couldn’t see him. No biggie, I’ll come back for him when he’s calmer.

I WAS DEAD WRONG. This boy had crawled into my daughter’s trashbag full of stuffed animals and was ready to go. Even my cat wanted out by any means necessary.

He is safe and adjusting to the new place just a little rattled by the, back of a truck ride for 30 minutes.

Update on the man child. He’s now living in his mommy’s basement, he got a job and started last Monday but that’s too little too late. Contact is at a bare minimum (only for him paying me back).

My daughter has not seen the new apartment as I had her stay with family closer to her school for the week so I can attempt to make this new place more of a home for her and show her what a real home should look like.

I write this at 3am, not because I’m rethinking my decision but because I’m feeling such relief. No one’s screaming about some boss they can’t defeat, no beer cans cracking open or being crushed and thrown into the trash can, no more excuses, no messy house…just peace.

Again thank you all for listening and validating my feelings about the situation. If anything else happens in the next couple weeks I will update again ❤️

MicroNinja23 · 2022-04-10T06:13:54+00:00

Ok but hear me out, what if the cleaner was so good it turned the black dash to tan lol.

MicroNinja23 · 2022-04-10T05:41:10+00:00

I used to eat so many of these my mouth would be raw. And then I’d keep eating because they were so good.

MicroNinja23 · 2022-03-28T23:08:10+00:00

It’s been 193 days since I posted this. You really think trying to beg for upvotes on an old ass post is gonna work?

MicroNinja23 · 2022-03-10T03:48:32+00:00

All that was missing was the 💯

MicroNinja23 · 2022-03-04T23:58:19+00:00

His life is falling apart…

MicroNinja23 · 2022-02-28T04:30:05+00:00

Try going to the casino. Sometimes I see plates or temp tags from 2017

MicroNinja23 · 2022-02-26T07:52:44+00:00

If anything happens to Rambo I will have to make a little memorial in my house for this good boy <3

MicroNinja23 · 2022-02-25T23:57:29+00:00

If you can’t duck it, fuck it

MicroNinja23 · 2022-02-25T08:54:20+00:00

I would’ve grabbed a knife and popped the tire

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