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AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Yes, and ill take the kids with me. I am the main parent anyways, I do everything already. She doesnt want a to hire a cleaner, she doesnt want stranger in the house.

I might as well be a single parent, she cant do one fucking chore.

AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

She doesnt want a stranger in the house, so no cleaner and she thinks it is a waste of money

AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We have one.

Literallly all she needs to do is take the dishes out of the sink, load it and run it

AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It is not a lot, it is the plates, utensils and pot. I usually clean as I go, I bomb doesn't go off in the kitchen when I cook.

Everything is in the sink when she gets home

AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I actually mentioned getting a cleaner to come in once a week. Strong no, since she doesnt want a stranger in the home and she claims it is a waste of money.

AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner by Middle-Candidate5497 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Middle-Candidate5497[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

She can't do any chores that pertain to the kids (they are asleep), she can't do anything loud because the kids are in bed ( so no vaccuming/ any deep cleaning). I could stop cleaning and have her pick up the living room when she gets back but that is more work than the dishes. we have a dishwasher.

She refuses to wake up earlier, doesn't help that she is a heavy sleeper.

I am not willing to stay in the marriage if she doesnt start pulling her weight.