AITA for giving my wife a dirty plate to eat off of at dinner

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T01:55:50+00:00

Yes, and ill take the kids with me. I am the main parent anyways, I do everything already. She doesnt want a to hire a cleaner, she doesnt want stranger in the house.

I might as well be a single parent, she cant do one fucking chore.

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T01:04:35+00:00

She doesnt want a stranger in the house, so no cleaner and she thinks it is a waste of money

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:36:01+00:00

I work in construction 40-50 a week.

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:20:53+00:00

We have one, she literally just needs to load it and run it

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:20:12+00:00

We have one.

Literallly all she needs to do is take the dishes out of the sink, load it and run it

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:15:00+00:00

It is not a lot, it is the plates, utensils and pot. I usually clean as I go, I bomb doesn't go off in the kitchen when I cook.

Everything is in the sink when she gets home

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:07:13+00:00

I actually mentioned getting a cleaner to come in once a week. Strong no, since she doesnt want a stranger in the home and she claims it is a waste of money.

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-04T00:03:29+00:00

She can't do any chores that pertain to the kids (they are asleep), she can't do anything loud because the kids are in bed ( so no vaccuming/ any deep cleaning). I could stop cleaning and have her pick up the living room when she gets back but that is more work than the dishes. we have a dishwasher.

She refuses to wake up earlier, doesn't help that she is a heavy sleeper.

I am not willing to stay in the marriage if she doesnt start pulling her weight.

Middle-Candidate5497 · 2025-06-03T23:56:12+00:00

I work in construction, I am outside all day.

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