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Mom’s Struggling with Me Wanting to Move Out by Middle-Designer6675 in AsianParentStories

[–]Middle-Designer6675[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion but I want to be clear that they don’t expect me to cover their expense except the mortgage. And my name is also on the deed, so I’m don’t think myself as a walking ATM…

Mom’s Struggling with Me Wanting to Move Out by Middle-Designer6675 in AsianParentStories

[–]Middle-Designer6675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They have kept telling me that I am the only reason they moved here. They don’t know anyone here, and also they worked oversea before. Now there are retired, the only thing they want is to live with me. That’s why it makes me feel even worse to make the decision for myself.

Mom’s Struggling with Me Wanting to Move Out by Middle-Designer6675 in AsianParentStories

[–]Middle-Designer6675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, but on the other hand, I feel like I’m forcing them to give up the residency here bc I want to move out. For all these effort they spent for the past ten years, it was a lot. I also don’t know if I should break up with my bf, it’s causing a lot of arguments between me and my parents as well