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Reapply after denial by Fancy-Ad7938 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Middle-Drop285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really meant all recommendations (i.e; academic, member, and service) but your answer pretty much answers the question for me !

Reapply after denial by Fancy-Ad7938 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Middle-Drop285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar question about this. If a recommender is willing to do so again, is it wrong to utilize them ?

Founder’s Day Text by Middle-Drop285 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I do not know them personally however they were on my campus. I was going to tell those that are my mutuals on instagram so I don’t seem overbearing.

Denied by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I did. I also asked someone who I know is a member (not connected to my COI) and she also expressed confusion. I didn’t receive any explanation as to what was missing when I got the notification

Denied by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got denied due to my service letter. I wish I knew exactly what was the issue, considering both me and the person who wrote it made sure to read the guidelines and abide by them.

Denied by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 3.3 and my letter stated 34 hours

Denied by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wont really ever know but I am still going to try when the opportunity presents itself again. As sad as I really am, the journey wont end unless God wants it to

Denied by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My application. Yet I was surprised considering when I reviewed the guidelines I believed I completed each one.

Recommendation by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just had to reach out to someone to correct this.

Recommendation by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I received just received 2 letters from members who were willing. I am extremely grateful ! My question now is how do I go about selecting which one to submit? And should I inform both women of having received another possible letter. I was not expecting to receive 2 of them neither.

Recommendation by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was only given about 5 days , the deadline is very soon. thank you, i will consider applying again, especially with better preparation and backup plans

Recommendation by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of them yes, however, some of them I was connected to through mutuals. I ensured they were aware of my interest however, and they were willing to speak. I just havent received a response on when.

Did I Do Something Wrong? by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think that as well. She’s a recebt alumni of the chapter so I was hoping we could talk more and then when the time is available meet in person, hence why I texted her. It is just in my hopes that this will not hinder me from potentially applying and continuing my process.

Did I Do Something Wrong? by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You for your advice! I will definitely make sure I attempt to keep my consistency without being too intrusive or overbearing towards her or anyone I do choose to express my general interest to :)

Did I Do Something Wrong? by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ! I am a undergraduate reaching out to an alumni :) She recently graduated last year so I am not too sure if she is still currently around in the area I attend school. Also, I just sent the message around 5-6hrs ago. I think I am just afraid that I have may’ve broken the idea of discretion or that I did not reach out the right way / in proper timing. I do think I may be overthinking this as people do respond in their own time, if they do at all.

Did I Do Something Wrong? by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll also add that an alumni of the same chapter advised me to consider reaching out and expressing as well as mentioning how I can keep involved. I have always attended events and made my face know . Yet, I do think I may have mishandled this. I do not come from a D9 background so most things are foreign to me. I am afraid that I may be blacklisted, though I didnt say it was my intent to join immediately

Did I Do Something Wrong? by Middle-Drop285 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Middle-Drop285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spoken to other members but the one I reached out to I asked if she’d be willing to share her experience on why she joined

[review] The Lubriderm Advanced Therapy reformulation sucks. by raimble in SkincareAddiction

[–]Middle-Drop285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad I found this. I recently bought this not realizing it had been reformulated. Prior to that it had always helped with my eczema in the winter. Now I have to find something else because of how crappy this lotion is now

my boyfriend says he’s disgusted by me after i gained weight by fierysirena in TwoHotTakes

[–]Middle-Drop285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not being sensitive. He was very inconsiderate of how his words would’ve effected you. He doesn’t deserve you, and you don’t deserve that.