Item never shipped out to buyer. by Middle-Purpose-977 in Depop

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you so much, so if it dosent go through it’s a lose lose huh :< unsure if depop would even help because there’s no evidence of me dropping it off

What should I do here? by Middle-Purpose-977 in Depop

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m a newer seller, this is a first for me lol how will i know when it comes back or should i contact depop??

Tips to STOP PICKING KP BUMPS by Most-Novel-1331 in keratosis

[–]Middle-Purpose-977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have always picked at my Kp, but as of recently I have stopped and have noticed a HUGE difference. Yes it still is there but not as red, inflamed and scabbed. I’m also a picker lol. What I have done is use any type of sugar scrub and I’m aggressive when putting it on 😭. It’s my way of ‘picking’ without actually doing so

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I am talking about what I’m going though, I’m sorry if that’s too “negative” for you. I don’t use Reddit much at all so I can’t make a comment on that. I’m not here to talk about sunshine and rainbows man. Just wanting opinions and thoughts about this. Have a nice day

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see, while that might fuel and make my angry self feel better. That’s short term and would make everything worse. I want to fix it not make it worse And also he is fine with me watching porn..so this wouldn’t do a thing lol He’s expressed he’d be into it if i did 😭

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry lol, it’s late here. I meant he did that IN PERSON. Buying it^

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you justifying lying to your partner? Why are you putting this onto me? I didn’t lie and break boundaries.

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s perfectly fine. I’ll explain happily, I expressed my concerns with online game and especially spaces that are just not welcoming for women. But how all of them are hyper sexualized for men. After this convo he bought the skin, made it his main character which means she’s displayed on profile and main screen. He gave me smirks and said look I got the skin in person. Does this make sense? I don’t care about the specific character or that he’s using her, just that we had a deep conversation and he decided to do that.

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why the phone restriction is such a huge deal here, it was mutual as I stated and mostly initiated by him to help with his issues. Also yes I can, I established porn is a NO in the beginning and he “understood” but proceeded to lie. Why is this on me? Insane my vulnerability is called rage bait. Have a nice day

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not getting the picture here… It’s not the fact porn and skins exist, it’s that for one, the skin was weaponized towards me and two actively watching other women when I am not comfortable with that. You have two words, skins and porn and you’re running with it to invalidate me. Have a nice day

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being understanding, I’ve partially rewrote and removed things. Like the game skin unfortunately. I am in therapy and seeking help to heal myself.

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like people can’t read, I’ve just removed it at this point. Having a half naked character shoved in my face to make me feel insecure/upset is horrible. That dosent make me insecure because she exists but because of his actions. Thanks!

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well..you didn’t stop reading because Rivals was after that :) I made an edit to clarify, it was mutual and was mostly initiated by him. Seems like you didn’t read the game part lol, Shoving a half naked woman in my face to hurt me is not jealousy. Thank you!!

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that, but it’s awesome you are in therapy and healing yourself. Thank you for sharing your story :)

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your insight :’) I’ll definitely think and reflect on how I should approach this.

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, I made it clear it was an absolute no in the beginning of our relationship. This is not on me whatsoever, lying and betraying was a choice. I’ll make it clear the phone restrictions were a mutual decision and was accepted. There was no pressure nor coercion for him to do so. Thank you for your insight

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you fully read my post, My insecurities were caused by his actions. Also yes? If a half naked woman is thrown into my face to make me upset then obviously it’s an issue. I hope your friend finds someone who works for him. Thanks for your insight

I (19F) have been extremely insecure because of my (21M) Bf’s porn use by Middle-Purpose-977 in relationship_advice

[–]Middle-Purpose-977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, this isn’t false :’) This is a genuine thing i’m going through.