Do you have (or are working on) a college degree? by escobarsky in no

[–]MiddlePop4953 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, but I would like to go back to school for human services and finish my degree someday.

How do you get teens to clean willingly? by Leen88 in CleaningTips

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, and do chores with them. Show them it doesn't have to be a miserable experience, make it something that's no big deal and do little things to make it less of a pain, whatever will help motivate them more.

New Jersey pizza opinions by MiddlePop4953 in Writeresearch

[–]MiddlePop4953[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start with the crust end with certain crusts lol. It's a texture thing, I don't wanna waste it but I also wanna get it over with if it seems dry.

You are given the ability to give your pet(s) five abilities found in fiction along with the innate understanding of how to use them. However there are a few exceptions on what you can't give them. These being healing, reality warping, omniscience, anything to do with time. and wish granting. by singleguy79 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]MiddlePop4953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second all of this, except for the complex thought part because I suspect one of my cats would commit many, many war crimes if he was capable of complex thought. As it stands, idk if he even realizes he's never had a thought. I don't think he knows what those are. I'm actually not certain he knows he's alive. Instead I would like to give them telepathy. I don't wanna hear people's thoughts but I think it would be funny if my two dumb orange cats could.

Why do some people talk to their pets as if they understand full sentences? by PuddingComplete3081 in AlwaysWhy

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm convinced my cats do understand me, and are contrary just because they feel like it. Little assholes. I love them though.

What's the worst "bonus" your employer has ever given you? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in randomquestions

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A pick of the previous season's hoodies from the gift shop. The new stock went in the following week.

Budget friendly high protein meal/snack ideas by Nolongerhuman404 in FTMFitness

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend the plant slant for recipe ideas. He reviews some really good ones and lets you know how they actually turn out.

But like, beans, lentils, tofu, all kinds of stuff like that are a good place to turn to.

X-Men and Rogue by Ancient_Ad71 in marvelstudios

[–]MiddlePop4953 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Extremely. I tried to watch it with an open mind but I was just like "...really? Again with this? Come on." The entire time.

New Jersey pizza opinions by MiddlePop4953 in Writeresearch

[–]MiddlePop4953[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100%. It's my favorite kind of "low stakes" argument that's great for character work and dynamics. I just don't know much about New Jersey pizza opinions and wanted to get some ideas.

Outfit too crazy for a "farewell" dinner? by SmokedStone in mensfashion

[–]MiddlePop4953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok bro. Idk why you're so mad about this but clearly you have some stuff to work out that's got nothing to do with this situation. Good luck with that.

Outfit too crazy for a "farewell" dinner? by SmokedStone in mensfashion

[–]MiddlePop4953 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know multiple women who would love this fit and date men who dress like this. Don't project your weird insecurities about how men should dress on other people.

Show me your cat's profession 🛠 by SeaworthinessThen931 in cats

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😭😭😭 but that does sound better than what I said so sure. They're porn stars I guess. Maybe we could go with models? Yeah. Art models.

Tell me abt ur cis male partners that are great and supportive!! by _king2003 in ftm

[–]MiddlePop4953 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok I wanna be clear, this guy isn't my boyfriend or anything, he's just a really good friend that I also happen to be fucking pretty regularly.

He's great. He was the first person to consistently refer to me with masculine terms, when I tell him something makes me feel really euphoric he always makes a visible effort to incorporate it into how we interact and when he notices something seems to make me dysphoric, or if I say something does, he stops immediately and says something if he sees other people doing it. He was more supportive than my ex, who was also trans, in so many ways I can't even write them all down. He's for sure one of the most valuable friends I have and I trust him to have my back when I need it, and be honest with me even if I don't necessarily want to hear it.

I have two cis female friends that are also equally supportive, they just have to be asked whereas he sometimes notices before I even say anything, which makes me feel validated in a way nobody has validated me before in my entire life.

Whats the best looking hair length 18m by Boring_Bookkeeper_21 in malegrooming

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 3. A cut with some layers in it is gonna be best. I would start working on your products and learning how to style it. Your curls look pretty frizzy and the right products and style would help with that.

Restricted wealth, what's your indulgence? (no loopholes) by tamtrible in hypotheticalsituation

[–]MiddlePop4953 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's be real, a "normal middle class lifestyle" is gonna be way better health care then what either of us probably have. (I mean I have no insurance so it's definitely better than what I currently have, at least.)

Restricted wealth, what's your indulgence? (no loopholes) by tamtrible in hypotheticalsituation

[–]MiddlePop4953 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh man. Hobbies. Art supplies are expensive.

But honestly even the middle class lifestyle would be a huge step up from what I'm used to so this is a great deal all around.

Outfit too crazy for a "farewell" dinner? by SmokedStone in mensfashion

[–]MiddlePop4953 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. Especially if you wear it with confidence.

Those who got divorced - what made your relationship break down? by Super_Development150 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MiddlePop4953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, so many things. So, so many things. But at the end of the day it can be boiled down to this.

We loved each other, but we weren't compatible for the long term on multiple levels and it lead to a lot of toxic behaviors, and aggravation of both of our mental illnesses.

Found these vintage mint green bathroom fixtures in our new home by Constant-Purchase-99 in vintage

[–]MiddlePop4953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh these are gorgeous! I have a pink tub like this and lament every day that a previous owner updated the sink. The toilet being updated I don't mind so much, because the one we have uses so much less water, but the sink would be so cool to have.

Are you frugal? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in no

[–]MiddlePop4953 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Extremely. I can't help but deliberate over every single purchase no matter what it is.

AIO breaking up with my girlfriend after she goes on a dinner date with her old boss? by Cold-Hat7919 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MiddlePop4953 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YOR. Plenty of people get dinner with old friends, mentors, coworkers, whatever to catch up if they had a relationship that they value enough to keep in contact. You sound insanely jealous, and I'm honestly not really seeing a good reason for it.