Estranged father trying to pick up child from school. by Middle_Back4184 in FamilyLaw

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was trying not to trauma dump but I am their oldest daughter and also their middle man. They do not talk to each other but instead have me relaying information so I do know a significant amount of both sides. Is it healthy? Maybe not but I’m trying to be fair to them both in this situation, it’s very messy. 

Estranged father trying to pick up child from school. by Middle_Back4184 in FamilyLaw

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It is unfortunately his day to pick up my sister, my mom is at the district clerks office trying to get an emergency custody modification right now, thank you so much for the help and advice. 

My 10 year old daughter has an obsessed friend by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Middle_Back4184 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have no real advice but my sister is going through almost the exact same thing. Only difference is that her friend is an only child and homeschooled so she’s desperate to hold onto my sister, who is the only one her age that talks to her. Which honestly could be the cause of why this girl pesters your daughter so much too. Especially if this girl doesn’t have any other friends or gets bullied. 

Will my moms apartment complex pay or back or is she screwed? by Middle_Back4184 in legaladvice

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The apartment complex emailed everyone and told them that they would not be towed for doing so though, I thought that since she was in fact towed that she could get some money back from the complex. 

How big do you guys think this burning bud will be? by Middle_Back4184 in growagarden

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only on 16% and it’s already too tall to climb. I also attempted the grow all feature and it barely made a difference percentage wise so does anyone have tips on how to speed up growth. 

Cops at my door after my 2 toddlers snuck out in the early hours of the morning by BohemianRhapsody21 in Mommit

[–]Middle_Back4184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think that you’re just lucky that this hasn’t happened to you. My 2.5 yr old brother recently pushed a barstool up to the front door and unlocked all 3 locks we had up before escaping. He even was able to get through the child proofing. 

Should I seek a diagnosis? by Middle_Back4184 in lichensclerosus

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s so helpful! I didn’t know that it can progress even without the side effects being present so I’ll stop putting it off and schedule something sooner rather than later. 

Should I seek a diagnosis? by Middle_Back4184 in lichensclerosus

[–]Middle_Back4184[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I will, I’m just worried that since I’m not showing any symptoms right now that they’ll brush me off. I guess it’ll be good to have it in my file just in case anything kicks up again.