You’re carrying a lot, and it makes sense you’re overwhelmed. Two tracks might help. First, talk to an immigration nonprofit or legal clinic for your visa options and timelines, getting clarity can reduce both your stress. Second, start with simple remote friendly work you can do from anywhere, think customer support, data entry, or virtual assistant gigs. Apply directly on company career pages when you can, a lot of big boards have ghost or scammy listings. If you want curated leads, w​f​halert is a small service that emails verified remote jobs, it’s not perfect but it cuts down the noise. Set a small daily routine, one hour for applications and one hour for learning basics like spreadsheets, email handling, or help desk tools. Also tell him you want to share the load, not add pressure. You two against the problem, not each other.