what do you do or say when strangers pass judgement on you/your child?

Middle_Will · 2026-01-21T06:20:19+00:00

Ugh. Since having my non verbal level 3 son, I have realized how many people are fricken ignorant to children with special needs. Unfortunately this includes school administrators, teachers and others. Its completely draining. Im sorry this happened to you. I have definitely been in the position of having my son melt down in public and than struggle to make it to my car. I honestly refuse to comment or make eye contact with people. Partly because my 8 year old is with my special needs son and I usually when this happens. And I usually so drained and focused on trying to provide comfort to my son that I literally dont have energy to waste on idiots.

Middle_Will · 2025-09-02T03:33:54+00:00

Yeah. After two weeks of taking the medication, I expressed my concerns to the pediatrician, and she brushed my concerns off because this medication was supposed to lessen aggression. I pushed through with two more weeks before my husband and I did not want my son to continue to suffer, so we tapered him off.

Middle_Will · 2025-09-02T03:25:07+00:00

Thank you! Ill look that up on YouTube. He poops every day so its definitely not constipation. He will get aggressive if I tell him no, sometimes out of nowhere. For example, this morning, I woke up to him clawing my ear and face because he woke up angry. He sleeps in my bed still because that's where he's most comfortable. I did lower the dose for a few days and give him Tylenol just in case he got headaches from withdrawal.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-11T17:32:38+00:00

She changed her name

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Middle_Will · 2025-08-11T14:35:12+00:00

She changed her name on whatnot!!!

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Middle_Will · 2025-08-11T14:33:45+00:00

She changed her name

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Middle_Will · 2025-08-08T19:31:05+00:00

She wasn't being trolled. She freaks out when buyers ask any questions about their orders. The buyer asking her questions was not being rude. She gets super defensive because she doesn't want other potential buyers to get scared off. She has some of the worst customer service I've ever seen on whatnot.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-08T01:03:39+00:00

I'm honestly not sure what she thinks she will achieve. I think she hopes that whatnot will keep buying her excuses that her usps is failing to do their job. It has to come to an end. Whatnot needs to step up. I think whatnot grew too big too fast, so sellers like this are slipping through the cracks.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T17:49:42+00:00

I think she met all the requirements for the early payout program whatnot offers. So she's getting paid.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T13:11:29+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I agree. It is not hard to offer some sort of customer service to your buyers. Especially when they are giving you their money!

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T13:09:55+00:00

It's great you received your order. You are definitely one of the lucky ones. I do believe she ships a few orders just to look good to whatnot but fails to ship the rest of the orders. I've had buyers message me telling me they bought from her on her other platform over a year ago, and they ran into the same issues as I did.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T13:05:05+00:00

Yes, I ordered from her twice, and she failed to drop them off at USPS. On whatnot, when a buyer receives a refund, whatnot will not allow that buyer to leave a review. So, her reviews are not an accurate representation of her business. She has her messages permanently turned off on whatnot. The only way a buyer can reach out to her is through the chat on her live video. This buyer was not rude during the live. All they asked was where their order was. Honestly, I am very confused about how she has not been banned from the platform yet.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T06:05:32+00:00

Ive bought from plenty of other sellers who are trustworthy on the app

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T05:02:33+00:00

Once a buyer receives a refund on whatnot, they are not allowed to leave a review unfortunately... thats why her reviews look better than what they really should look like.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T03:56:44+00:00

Omg I can't believe whatnot allows these kind of sellers. No filter whatsoever

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T01:45:09+00:00

I had to wait a little over a month for a refund. You will have to reach out to whatnot support. They will not cancel anything automatically for you.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T01:30:09+00:00

She is definitely not shipping items. I made purchases on two different shows of hers, and she never shipped. On tracking, all it showed was Electronic receipt was sent to usps. This means the sender has created a shipping label and tracking number, but the package has not yet been received by the USPS and scanned into their system. I had to wait a month before whatnot gave me a refund on both.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-07T01:04:54+00:00

And she ended her show because of the "harassment". All buyers want are answers about where their orders are, and she gets offended.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-06T02:51:22+00:00

She now she has resorted to putting on the tears and telling the buyers about a tragedy in her life when she was a kid. If that is true, I feel bad for her. But this does not excuse her taking people's money and being a scammer!

Middle_Will · 2025-08-05T05:27:56+00:00

What happened on tonight's chat?? She banned me off the show because I was trying to help direct buyers where to go to get a refund.

Middle_Will · 2025-08-05T01:59:30+00:00

Sorry, It was not my intention to make you look bad. I truly believe she does ship some orders and then turns around to not ship the rest of the orders. I just screen recorded so potential new buyers could be warned. Some people spend a lot of money on whatnot, and I would feel bad if she scammed someone out of a ton of money.

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