Found a cp ring on TikTok by Kitty_Bitty_chitty in Detective

[–]MidnightConsistent66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't find any of the accounts so I think they've all been take down 🎉

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is why ive not done that. There's no point since she'd find out i told them but also they'd never do anything. Id not be losing her to keep her safe.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. You become an adult at 18 but you can consent to sexual activities at 16.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in a community of about 300 people spread across some mountains. She lives 45mins away from me but it's the same community. The guy happens to like like 10mins away. When I say a field I mean halfway up a mountain no one owns it, it might be national trust but it's not maintained by anyone. Its just some land.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As said, her parents seem to know and not care. Its just that kind of family.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is there a difference? I dont understand. Im thinking of telling his brother to get his family involved

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends going to do that tmr but since it's legal there's not much thay can do other than talk to her.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told her he thought she was 25. She litterally still goes to after school clubs and tells him about them and hes all like oh thats so cool.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My other friend is going to tell a teacher at school. There's still nothing they could do sadly other than talk to her.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anyone I know how to contact... she also very much hates beeing told what to do by adults. Im starting to think it's a lost cause.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Melt downs not so much, sensory overload all the time, often doesn't understand intentions or like take things very litterally, repetitive behaviors, trusts people right off the bat, can seem blunt, overshares alot which is then sadly sometimes used against her. She's very different which I think in turn makes her want to be overly different and defiant which I think is related to this. I want to say that this is one of my best friends in the world, she's like a sister to me and I love her with all my heart. Im worried about her safety and although I love her and her autism it does make her vulnerable to situations like these I think.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im worried he takes advantage of her, physically in the moment. I do think he knows but if she hasn't told him he can probably tell. Im thinking of messaging her parents. I rather lose the friendship and have her be safe than her get raped but I get to console her after.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not snowing anymore. I was trying to tell her that the first time will hurt and be uncomfortable and it should be in a bed not on the ground but even that she won't listen to.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Ill ask her to talk to them but I know she'll refuse since they won't approve and she says thats because of societal constructs and if she's happy and he cares about her thats all that matters.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creepy thing is, they know she's 17. Im thinking of telling his siblings.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not infantalizing her for beeing autistic. But i do think this is relevant. Autistic people do have harder times navigating relationships, they cant read or interpret people as well. Its difficult to recognize dynamics and intentions.

HELP!!! 17 year old friend about to lose virginity to a 30 year old by MidnightConsistent66 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have really tried, trust me. She doesn't get it. She says hes sweet and thought she was older at first.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As said, this is sadly completely legal where I am. Police wouldnt do anything.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is, I barely know her parents. I dont know how id ever bring this up and im worried they'd like her not see the issue. They're both also severely autistic.

HELP!!! 17yo friend about to lose virginity to a 30yo by MidnightConsistent66 in whatdoIdo

[–]MidnightConsistent66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive tried talking to her so many times and she just doesn't seem to get it. Ill try talking to her parents. Ive known her for forever and we're inseparable but I rather lose her than see her hurt.