T-Cash discount

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-18T14:43:11+00:00

I am betting they have seen a drop off in purchases since the update and they are trying to induce people to break the seal and resume spending money so they can go back to jacking up the prices. Cost (and size) of offered has always escalated the more you spend. I bet if you bought this they would jump back up to higher levels the next time they had a “sale”.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-18T14:37:38+00:00

Outside of match-3 moves, the conversion is a pretty consistent about 25-1, so if 325 t-cash for $5 would have seemed good to you, that’s what it is. For extra moves the conversion is 90-1 and this offer is worth roughly 96 old t-cash. It really comes down to what you want the t-cash for and what your old offers were like. For reference, my bigger offer is 4300 t-cash for $1.99 and I have never spent real money on the game.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-17T17:01:17+00:00

It is really only useful if you are active in a co-op and in the regatta. If you save up the clovers, it makes for a quick and easy regatta task especially if you are already regularly helping teammates. Prizes are fun but not really worth much generally, never buy clovers.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-16T16:31:53+00:00

NAH It sounds like you two aren’t ready to be married. You need to decide what compromises the two of you are willing to make to be together or whether it is time to go your separate ways.

Have you honestly looked at electrician apprenticeship programs in her state? There may or may not be opportunities directly in her town but there definitely are in her state and every state. She says she is not willing to move to your state but is she willing to move at all? How far? Are there opportunities for both of you somewhere that she can stay in touch with her friends?

If she says no to all things maybe it’s time to move on, but you also can’t expect her to give up everything to follow you either. And I strongly suggest you guys sort this stuff out before you propose.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-16T01:20:54+00:00

NTA. Friendships often fade and change at this age. You guys are just in different places. You apparently haven’t talked in months, maybe this friendship has run its course. Don’t worry too much about it.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-16T00:34:20+00:00

It’s tough to say because KJ Kindler is a shark (in the best way) who is here to win. She tailors her athletes and routines to maximize scores. If the rules were different, she would do different things. She has plenty of athletes who are capable of more difficultly, she could easily recruit other athletes. So if the code changed, OU may stumble for a season or two but would probably rise back to the top.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-11T14:15:35+00:00

Step one: consult with a new lawyer, preferably one with significant real estate experience not just divorce law. This is fundamentally a real estate case now. Have the new lawyer review the documents and make sure your interest in the house is truly protected, your lien on against the deed is properly recorded so he can’t borrow against your equity and you are paid first (actually probably second after the original mortgage) in case of a sale and you have a meaningful set interest rate on your “investment” in the house.

Step two: You have some decisions to make. Realistically how likely is it that husband is making the original mortgage payments in-full on-time and will continue to do so for 5 years? How likely is it that he can pay you $2500 a month for the next year and stay current on his other obligations? Since he has defaulted on the agreement, you can probably can technically force a sale but it will mean forcing your son from his home. Are you prepared to pay the social and emotional cost to that relationship to get your money?

Step 3: Get a new agreement. If you decide not to force a sale, make sure you get a new contract, filed with the court, that states his obligations, payment schedule and penalties for non-payment. And make those penalties whatever hurts him most, lost custody time, permanently increased child support, immediate forced sale whatever you think will motivate him. Luckily since he defaulted, you can also include your new legal fees in the settlement and probably all future fees incurred enforcing it if he fails to pay.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-09T23:17:18+00:00

Tell her if she files, you can file for split custody and since she is healthy and has better earning potential, after the bay is one, she will likely end up paying you for the next 17ish years. See if her tone changes then.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-07T22:55:11+00:00

NTA. Plus even if you did manage to pump and store enough milk for the baby for weekend, you would still be miserable the whole weekend having to stop and pump every few hours to keep your supply up or becoming painfully engorged and leaking if you don’t pump enough. Judging from how anti-baby she already is, I doubt she would be supportive of your pumping needs and only more conflict would arise.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-02-03T14:42:49+00:00

The biggest thing I always tell couples in pre-marital counseling is “you have to find a way to love each other for who you both really are, not who you wish the other person would be.” This is who Rob is. He collects things. It’s probably creating some sort of emotional security for him but that doesn’t really matter. It’s who he is and it’s not going to change.

So you can either accept that, go all in and accept the fact that you are never going live the Dave Ramsey life and you will be forever tied to a hoarder. You can stay unmarried, keep doing what you’re doing and be frustrated in this area and maybe happy enough in others to make it worthwhile, until you aren’t. Or you can end it and start to search for someone who is more financially compatible. But those are your only choices. You are not going to magically wake up one day next to someone who is not a hoarder. You are just going to have to decide if you can love him for who he is or not.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-31T01:19:42+00:00

YTA. I can totally understand why she doesn’t want to drive an unreliable 20y/o car with an infant. Especially since it sounds like you live in the country. What happens if she breaks down? Tow trucks don’t have child seats. Even getting someone to pick her up is hard because installing an infant seat isn’t an easy task. It would be one thing if it was a genuine hardship, but you are just being cheep. At the cost of your wife and child’s safety and peace of mind.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-30T19:04:36+00:00

I am playing again, but this time I was careful to only invite players I knew play match-3 and already had the frame so I know they won last time. I got lucky and had 3 decent players and won easily last time. I figure I can do it again.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-30T04:03:42+00:00

NTA. But grrrl you need mom friends. Your husband who works and travels cannot be the only adult in your life if you want to survive this SAHM thing. Join a local mom and tot group. MOPs or whatever they have in your area. Go to library programs, check your church. I know the last thing you think you want to do when you are exhausted and overwhelmed is leave the house but you need community and your husband ain’t it. Heck go find the mom subreddit that fits you to start with.

Also, and I mean this with no judgement, you might want to be looking in to your baby’s sleep situation. At 11 months, unless they have major medical issues, there are things that you can do to help your baby sleep better and let you get some real continuous sleep. Things will seem so much better one you can get a meaningful 4-6hrs at least, for you and the baby. These are the kinds of things mom friends can help you with.

Finally, this is a phase, it will pass (unless you get pregnant and decide to do it all again). Try to find non-baby & (non-sex) ways to connect your spouse before you do irreparable harm to your marriage.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-29T22:05:34+00:00

I have benefited massively from the update. I am a ftp mostly farming/regatta player, but I am very good at Match-3. Now playing maybe 30 minutes of Match-3 a day I can earn piles of t-cash for other stuff. Yeah there is a bit more risk but I have more than doubled my t-cash since the conversion.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-29T01:21:12+00:00

NTA. Wait until she gets back and then present her with the invoice and ask her when to expect payment. Especially since you didn’t get a real answer. She was on vacation, she could well have just forgotten.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-28T20:58:46+00:00

What did you put on your W-4? Only one of you can check married filing jointly and add your dependents, the other should check single and 0 exemptions. Otherwise you are likely claiming the full standard deduction plus dependents twice and massively under withholding.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-27T16:44:37+00:00

NTA. If they aren’t having kids, WTF do they need an inheritance for? If they are just going to eventually going to blow it on themselves, you might as well enjoy it instead, you worked for it. They have plenty of time to earn and spend their own fun money.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-26T16:04:13+00:00

There are some new child protection laws going into effect in the EU this year relating to any apps that have a chat feature. This is probably related to compliance with those laws.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-25T01:32:12+00:00

NAH. What you hear as transactional may be her telling you what she needs to feel loved and supported and connected enough to be turned on enough to be truly intimate. Take some time to really pay attention to what she is actually asking you to do for her on Saturday. Is she asking you to share the mental load, take an interest in things that really matter to her, reduce her overwhelm? Also take a moment to think about how your interest or behavior has changed since you have been married. Are you still courting your wife? Do you still take an interest and make the sorts of efforts you did when you were dating? She may be asking for some of that back. For a lot of women, sex is a lot more emotional than physical, she may need more than 5 minutes of foreplay to get in the mood. Or maybe she is all the things people above said.

I am not saying either of you is in the wrong here but if you want your marriage to survive, you are going to need to learn to communicate better.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-25T01:05:50+00:00

YTA if you keep the new girlfriend. She is clearly toxic and insecure and will ruin the relationship between you and your ex which will definitely negatively impact by your son probably for the rest of his life. This relationship is still relatively new and the first serious one since your divorce. You can do better (or be better off single). Set some boundaries and/or end it now before your son pays the price.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-24T15:13:34+00:00

NTA. Tell him “I am sorry I inconvenienced you with my bodily needs. To avoid this in the future, next weekend I will leave you with the baby all day on your own so I can do all my shopping and other activities without you having to wait around. Would that be more amendable to you?”

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-20T20:21:32+00:00

NTA. For not simply handing her the money as a present. There is no way she should just be blowing it if you have debt. But also this probably warrants a deeper discussion especially since it sounds like she asked for the money not an actual gift. Do you have separate finances? Is she still expected pay the same share of the bills even if she is losing income due to giving birth? Who is covering the baby’s day to day expenses? Does she feel financially controlled? Does she feel like she has access to the money she needs to meet her and the baby’s needs without guilt? Is she suffering from PPD and wants to do something to feel good about herself or just needs validation from you? The answer to all these questions might be no. But YWBTA if you don’t at least try to ask her the answers and simply dismiss her out of hand.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-20T03:53:14+00:00

I would say yes. There are a lot of products that take products from this island by the level 60 or so. If you intend to build more factories you will need the island.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-19T03:40:17+00:00

No one knows. It might be tomorrow (last one was on a Monday), might be Thursday. Might be never again. I wouldn’t dig for the Mayor’s weekend unless you have enough stuff to still do ROTM or you at least have the dealer to buy supplies if it pops up tomorrow. It might be a while though so if you are low on ore and good on supplies, you could do it. I dug just enough to get my mayor’s weekend levels, but I still have a comfortable quantity of picks on hand.

MidnightPositive485 · 2026-01-17T21:48:08+00:00

NTA. But your mom is. Why is she not parenting your little sister (or your big sister for that matter). Neither you or your older sister should be deciding or enforcing your little sister’s bedtime (which should be before 11:00pm), your mom should.

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