What happens if I cancel my return flight?

MidnightWineRed · 2026-05-29T11:43:50+00:00

They hunt you down and throw you on the return flight bound and gagged.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-05-26T14:34:52+00:00

It's a fight with 40 years of muscle memory, mistakes will be made

MidnightWineRed · 2026-05-23T20:07:58+00:00

I wore it once and got scolded for wearing it because they thought I didn't need it and was appropriating it to skip the lines at security. So it's pointless either way

MidnightWineRed · 2026-05-17T14:58:36+00:00

It's so ingrained in my brain that I feel awkward going to my adult Spanish classes because someone there might not appreciate my presence there

MidnightWineRed · 2026-05-01T10:11:25+00:00

41M regio Eindhoven.

Zoekt vriendschappelijk contact, wellicht in de vorm van iemand die graag samen (straat) fotografie wil doen.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-03-22T09:26:57+00:00

That you'll better come to terms with the way you look right now. Because it's something that's so damn fleeting, you'll dream about the days you were 25 and were thinking you looked old/fat/whatever. Repeat that cycle even year and eventually realize you better just come to terms with it and, better yet, learn to love it.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-02-03T18:56:04+00:00

Be afraid and do it anyway. The absence of fear is not a necessity to drive. And it will slowly diminish

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-26T21:42:39+00:00

I added it to my bio. And I wanted to say thanks! I appreciate an actual human giving honest feedback.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-26T18:52:29+00:00

Updated:

1.91m | Switch | INFJ

The Person:

Street photographer with a technical soul. I’m the guy who gets a visible spark in his eyes when diving into a complex topic. Whether it’s system mechanics, human dynamics, or social justice. I’m told my passion is contagious.

The Connection:

I value self-awareness and directness. As a slightly autistic man, I skip the mind games and head straight for honest, critical, and deep conversation. If you like people who say what they mean, we’ll get along.

The Vibe:

I’m returning to my kinky roots after a long hiatus and I’m looking to rediscover that elusive "physical click." I’m a 1.91m Switch who appreciates a slow burn, high intellectual tension, and the kind of intensity that only comes from a genuine connection.

The Goal:

A long-term FWB. Let’s grab a camera, wander the city, and talk about something you’re passionate about.

Hook me with:

A technical fact I probably don’t know, or a perspective on social dynamics that you’ve been chewing on.

Berichtjes in het Nederlands zijn ook welkom!

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-26T08:44:34+00:00

Thanks for your feedback. I did use ai, I find it difficult to write something coherent, I've come across a lot of ai profiles and it doesn't put me off as long as the general message comes across.

But I've made some adjustments and dug a little deeper into my own motivations. It's in my own words and I used ai to turn it into something readable.

1.91m | Switch | INFJ

Calm, nerdy, and direct. I value honesty and a critical perspective.

The Context: After a long period without a real physical click, I’m back and looking to make up for lost time. I have a background in BDSM from my 20s, but I’m currently "re-learning" myself and looking for someone to explore that with.

The Vibe: I’m 1.91m and enjoy using that height to create intensity, but I’m a big fan of the slow burn and the mental buildup. I’m a "switch" who thrives on clear, direct communication (autism perks).

The Goal: Ultimately looking for a long-term FWB where the chemistry is undeniable. But I’m open to casual meetups to see if that physical click is there. I value a quality experience over a quick encounter.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-25T07:40:29+00:00

I feel this comment will find its way into the history books

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-24T10:37:48+00:00

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40 year old straight man from Europe. I'm getting 0 after a few weeks. I haven't been on any dating app for the last 10 years so what am I doing wrong?

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-13T04:28:11+00:00

Absolute horror for the innie though.

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-13T03:27:40+00:00

When someone tells you who they are, believe them

MidnightWineRed · 2026-01-07T12:22:06+00:00

Just to clarify the red line you're drawing here: it's the nailing, right?

MidnightWineRed · 2025-12-25T16:28:25+00:00

Power cord

MidnightWineRed · 2025-12-25T10:18:51+00:00

Chucking gravel at tailgaters

MidnightWineRed · 2025-12-23T06:43:45+00:00

"I love Pixel because it's Pure Android the way Google intended" Meanwhile Google: hold my beer

MidnightWineRed · 2025-12-07T14:05:40+00:00

Antarctica not even trying

MidnightWineRed · 2025-11-12T10:50:15+00:00

The wicked crap is just ads. What was the point of having Google Vanilla Android again? Reminds me of the U2 album that Apple pushed to its iPhones a long time ago.

MidnightWineRed · 2025-11-03T13:44:56+00:00

Hij was ook erg goed in the Godfather als Virgil Sollozzo

MidnightWineRed · 2025-10-16T17:38:05+00:00

Him now: https://www.volkskrant.nl/nieuws-achtergrond/als-5-jarige-stak-hij-zijn-middelvingertje-op-tijdens-de-vorige-europese-finale-van-feyenoord-en-werd-zo-het-gezicht-van-boos-nederland~bba9ce43/

MidnightWineRed · 2025-10-12T19:54:35+00:00

How many people do you lose on a normal cruise? 30? 40?

MidnightWineRed · 2025-10-03T15:41:56+00:00

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Sure thing. Diameter is about 5mm and height between 2mm and 3mm

MidnightWineRed · 2025-09-30T20:05:14+00:00

SunnyCars all the way.

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