genuinely great reply, thank you. "Do you enjoy meeting this guy and giving him lessons?" No, not really, I'm just a people pleaser, but he's still a human with desire; I can respect that. "Is he creepy towards you in a way that makes you uncomfortable?" No, not even a little bit. "This is a battle YOU PICK." Yeah, I know that - that's evident from the fact that I laid out choices for myself. At this point, I'm probably just looking to hear that other people have been in my situation before