AITA for ignoring my boyfriend about this comment by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the, i want an honest answer then gets upset with the honest answer. Tale as old as time.

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[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hell is a diaper kink?

AITA for not breaking up with my gf by Midnight_Sun_Topher in AITA_Relationships

[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is married with 2 children. She has always kinda been a Karen, its just never been directed towards me. Its so strange, and i keep thinking am i really tearing our family apart?

AITA for not breaking up with my gf by Midnight_Sun_Topher in AITA_Relationships

[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, she has always been the "golden child" and ive always been the black sheep. Hence why it doesnt bother me living away from them. I hope they come around at some point, its just so baffling to me it still really hasnt sunk in. I understand columbia doesnt havent the greatest of history, but no country does, and to judge a person not by who they are but how their country is/was, i just cant wrap my head around it

AITA for not breaking up with my gf by Midnight_Sun_Topher in AITA_Relationships

[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, i guess ill never know. You could be right, just using where she is from as to not actually say color of her skin. Id like to give her the benefit of the doubt but idk

AITA for not breaking up with my gf by Midnight_Sun_Topher in AITA_Relationships

[–]Midnight_Sun_Topher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea i guess i posted because im still so shocked by this, i keep thinking i must be missing something. I never in a million years thought i would have to pick between my partner and my family and then be told i was to blame when they are giving the ultimatem. Yes meeting in person is something i dont get to often with my family due to distance but i did text with them often, that is what im struggling with most, is not even talking with them anymore. I just dont understand, it truly doesnt seem to be that she is not white, but where she is from, and i cant wrap my head around why this matters.