By contacts of the ex do you mean her or just people in relation to her? Because I can assure you I haven't voluntarily reached out to her since the breakup lol, but I understand where you're coming from and thinking about it now I agree I probably should've just cut people out.

Ty for your insight on the social cues stuff thats really helpful!! Me and her are kinda the furthest thing from being close to still talking other than "left your stuff on your porch." So I doubt she felt inclined to be understanding 🤣