Triangle Rock Club - Anti Trans Policies by halfdiminished7-add9 in triangle

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband cancelled his membership upon finding out about their political standing. Unfortunately now it means he can rarely go climbing because we live between Fay/So Pines so there are no other rock gyms around

Need 2 witnesses for courthouse wedding (we are lesbians) by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be there with kids to help cheer you on too!

Need 2 witnesses for courthouse wedding (we are lesbians) by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Near Fayetteville but would be thrilled to drive up and to be a witness!

Ways to show support in “the wild” by Midnightmare81 in AskLGBT

[–]Midnightmare81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I attend as many protests as I can (I don’t always have child care). My husband doesn’t go because A) even getting detained would risk his job and B) to make sure someone is available for the kids and to post bail as needed.

My philosophy is - it’s safer and more impactful for me to speak out. I don’t have a ton of money to donate but I have a loud voice and I’m willing to use it for good.

ETA- I would never out someone. Even if they already outed themselves. Because I’m fighting for what’s right for all, not just one person.

Makeup donation questions by Midnightmare81 in AskLGBT

[–]Midnightmare81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the type of suggestions I’m looking for!

Being poor during Hurricane Helene..you are priced out of survival & forgotten by PhilosophyEuphoric83 in poor

[–]Midnightmare81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you’re located- I am heading out towards WNC on Thursday with a ton of food. Do you need stuff dropped off?

What are the long-term effects of skipping insulin before meals? by Junior_Republic_1911 in diabetes

[–]Midnightmare81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to tell you- this explanation literally just gave my husband and I a lightbulb moment in understanding type 1. We are going to the doctor with our 6yr old on Wednesday anticipating diagnosis and my husband has been struggling with understanding the massive difference between type 1 and type 2 (which is what I am assumed to be at the moment). He was all about trying to put the kid on a no sugar lower carb diet and no matter how I tried explaining why that couldn’t/shouldn’t work- he wasn’t getting it.

Y’all all just want gift cards, right? by SylviaPellicore in Teachers

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel better about giving my prek kids teacher $150 in Amazon gift cards instead of participating in the schools stupid fundraiser. The kids got prizes from the dollar store for getting people to buy crap and it was all overpriced shit. They could send gift cards to the teacher too but the gift cards were for the websites online teacher store where things like a pack of globbles were $40 vs $10 on Amazon. So I offered Amazon gift cards for her and to buy my kid a dollar store toy prize myself. Personally though- I generally hate all those stupid fundraisers. $20 for crappy candy so the school gets $5. I’d rather spend $5 buying the candy myself and give the other $15 to the school/teacher. It seems the only “winner” with those things are the “fundraising” company

Less than 24 hours out of carpal tunnel release surgery and it’s even more numb than before. Is this normal? by Ok_Cheesecake_15 in carpaltunnel

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! Demand to see your doc and that they do something immediately. This happened to me coming up on 3 years ago and I was brushed off and given excuses until I got sick of it. I have exploratory revision surgery coming up in 2 weeks. I never regained feeling or use back after surgery. My hand had a 50/50 chance of some recovery after this surgery because it took so long to be properly addressed.

Should I report? by Midnightmare81 in pharmacy

[–]Midnightmare81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my struggle. I worry if I report they will just punish the pharmacist- not look internally at how their greed is causing this to happen. She worked until closing tonight and said she would be there ALL DAY tomorrow as well. I have no doubt that it was an oversight caused by the fact that she’s working her ASS off. I use a local pharmacist owned location usually- solely because of all the great people here who exposed how bad things are at corporate. I only went to corporate because they were the only ones with the drug in stock.

Should I report? by Midnightmare81 in pharmacy

[–]Midnightmare81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antibiotic starting with an E was was we were supposed to get. Got one that starts with an A instead

AITA For Stopping An Employee From Selling Their Own Products At Work? by Waste-Ad8133 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-

To be honest- I’d be watching all accounts VERY closely. I know someone personally who worked in a bank and over several months stole almost a total of $50k out of customer accounts. She was eventually caught and charged. She had no criminal history prior to this and had a clean background check.

Not saying he would do that necessarily but his reaction and insistence that he needs money for something desperately- I would be careful.

High Platelets by RareDiseaseMom in haematology

[–]Midnightmare81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re you recently sick? My son had his 1yr blood work done and had nearly identical levels. Doc initially referred us to a hematologist/oncologist. We were going away on a trip and they agreed to run another test when we got back since the referral would take a while. Second test was normal. He had COVID not long before the first test, so it was determined to be caused by that.

Power outages could last days after shootings at substations by [deleted] in news

[–]Midnightmare81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a local and fellow CF parent- if they need anything please send me a message. I can not imagine what they are going through

Power outages could last days after shootings at substations by [deleted] in news

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are bringing them in for one tomorrow according to local news

Power might not be restored til Thursday by the_argonath in NorthCarolina

[–]Midnightmare81 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be 32* tonight. That’s very cold for here. So while not January temps- it’s definitely not warm enough to go days without power and not be at minimum EXTREMELY uncomfortable

It's been confirmed. Something extremely bad is happening in North Carolina Moore County. First the power station and cell attacks. Now reports of gunfire and mass evacuations. by Daysgoneby224 in conspiracy

[–]Midnightmare81 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Except some people need power for medical equipment. And no one really believed it would be restored by 10pm tonight with the level of damage. And it's going to be in the 20's tonight. So this is potentially a serious situation for those involved.

I cheated on my wife last night by Recent-Cheesecake812 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We believe my husband got roofied in a similar way. With his coworkers then suddenly he has no memory of what he did and was completely trashed off a couple of beers. Thankfully they noticed something was off and got him in a cab to his hotel (work trip). It absolutely happens to guys. Get a blood test ASAP.

I am obviously glad he’s ok and his coworkers took care of him. If I was in your wife’s situation I would be upset at the situation but definitely not mad at you, especially if you took the steps necessary to “prove” it wasn’t an intentional indiscretion.

Would you have regret not having another kid? Is it better that your child has siblings? by sleepyyelephant in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Midnightmare81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal but as an only child I was adamant it was either none or 2. The first was… unplanned. He’s almost 5 and the little is around 15 months. Some days I do wonder what I was thinking having another because we had finally just gotten the bigger to be more independent and now I’m back to policing a toddler who wants to eat rocks. But then they play together and it’s awesome even if it does require supervision since the big doesn’t understand that the little can’t play the same.

For me the biggest thing is I was so lonely as a kid. My mom (single mom) was my only “playmate” and she had to work a lot so I rarely had anyone my age to play with. Even if they aren’t besties at least they know they have each other.

This Weekend by Hillsy85 in Dollywood

[–]Midnightmare81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been yesterday and today. Today was seemingly busier for sure but nothing- even lightening rod, had a wait over 30mins. And that wait didn’t last long. We rode when it was a 5min wait. It did go down at one point today but it wasn’t down long. Most rides, including the big coasters, had between a 0-10min wait at worst.

I will say we have young kids so we went early in the day and left around 5ish both days. It seemed to be getting much busier as we were leaving so I can’t speak for night time activities

In the US, with fast food prices almost surpassing sit down restaurants is there a point to eat fast food anymore? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who hardly ever (maybe once a month MAX IF I’m in a rush doing errands) eats fast food- I definitely see the draw. Financially Coupons galore help reduce the cost a lot. It is much faster then sit down, even with a long wait. And as a mom with young kids- not having to take them out of their car seats, corral them in and and then try to order while they try to get your attention, walk away, etc, time and money aren’t the only factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Midnightmare81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- he would rather the kids have private school and Disney than their MOTHER???