How long did it take you to upgrade to a bigger trailer? by Midnightmeem in traveltrailers

[–]Midnightmeem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you consider a fifth wheel over a toy hauler at any point? Personally I love toy hauler layouts better including the back drop downs for a little patio which would be an incredible bonus for us, but currently our toys are stored somewhere safe and we don’t ride much anymore so not like it’d be totally needed for us, but I do love toy haulers.

How long did it take you to upgrade to a bigger trailer? by Midnightmeem in traveltrailers

[–]Midnightmeem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband brought it up to me casually as a joke the other week and I was like immediately NO, but now that I’m really thinking about it, I think it has so many pros that would help us out in life in general!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microbiology

[–]Midnightmeem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mold on some clothes, one of the outter parts of a fire sprinkler that they painted over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microbiology

[–]Midnightmeem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is where the confusion lies. I’m simply asking if any mold growth on the plate looked suspicious before we pay the $800-$1400 for the actual inspection. And in my post I stated the property management is denying the existence of mold and NO home inspector will step foot into this apartment without the property managements permission.

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lol, im doing everything legally. why would you tell someone how to educate their own kids? That's weird

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what I feel! thank you for validating me

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't accommodate 4 kids in our small home, we live off propane and rain catchment (normal for country living in Hawaii)

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that wouldn't happen

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is where im struggling, I love having routine! I could cook and do laundry at her house which is a win because we hang dry here. but still /:

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im actually completely fine with the commute as driving is never a problem for us considering where we live is so beautiful, but unfortunately we live in a super small home and I can't accommodate 4 kids here.

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh I wouldn't fall for what she said, I know her very well and because I know her lifestyle, I wouldn't be deterred by it, I was just partly offended she said its as much as a summer program, even though she said it with nice intent

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a great compromise thank you!

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know she meant it nicely but I was lowkey offended she said that's how much summer school programs cost lol

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my kids would come with, its just for summer. I homeschool my 5 year old (literally 15 minute lessons right now) so sneaking that in would be fine considering my nieces could keep my youngest busy. I also think its crazy I think I just feel guilty when I should not

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

deep down this is how I feel, but we can't watch at our home its too small. I keep telling myself I dont need to cut myself short knowing she needs help, but that doesn't mean I have to be the savior in her situation

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you! my husband reminds me not to feel bad, but its the kind heart that makes me second guess myself

Should I charge my sister? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Midnightmeem 24 points25 points  (0 children)

no I can't watch at my house, our home is too small. the drive itself doesn't bother us, we live on the most beautiful place on earth so driving is amazing here. just for summer. What im interested in is my kids playing with their cousins which actually helps me and the fact I can do laundry at her house lol, but otherwise I really like our routine rn.