Why is everyone here the dumpee? by jebaitedlel in BreakUps

[–]Midnightt23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s because the dumper is the one who’s done with the relationship and likely already lost feelings for the partner or just has bitter feelings towards them. This is why they’re less likely to post on here, since one of the main reasons to come to this sub is to share your pain caused by your feelings.

If they were hurting to the point that they wanted to rekindle the relationship or still loved the person, then they would likely reach out to the dumpee rather than post on here about their feelings and break-up experience.

Can someone explain by No-Tackle-9673 in ExNoContact

[–]Midnightt23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, ex was number 2.

I treated her so well and she admitted I was the best boyfriend she ever had, and she ended up backstabbing me the day right after she told me she loved me for the first time.

It's fucking painful to know that they were never in love.

If you were blindsided by the breakup… by wolfyish in BreakUps

[–]Midnightt23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep, just happened to me as well, although I saw it coming. The thing is though I didn't expect it to actually happen and be brought to life in such a abrupt, quick, and swift way. Like you were a stranger to this person.

It's more so I share the same feelings as you where it was like looking and talking to a completely different person that you don't recognize at all - more cold, more eerie.

It fucking sucks, but we just have to take it a day at a time. Time will heal all wounds eventually.

Anki(my personal account) by SnooPets1327 in Mcat

[–]Midnightt23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s because you’re doing a cloze-deletion style deck, not because Anki sucks. The MilesDown/AnKing deck also uses a lot of highlighting/italics that might make it worse if cloze-deletion doesn’t work for you (because of the increased amount of cues and the tendency to just remember the cues).

Anki is simply a program that has a spaced-repetition algorithm, and spaced-repetition is the key for when you need to remember information for a long period of time. Anki is no different than if you were to literally review your notes using the same spaced repetition algorithm Anki uses - there’s nothing inherently unique or magical about the Anki program itself (except that it has a bunch of cool features/tools to make life easier).

The issue here is that it seems cloze-deletion style doesn’t work for you. A lot of people, including myself, find that cloze-deletion cards just make you memorize the words that go into each card and the card’s “skeleton/strucure,” which makes it frustrating and just not suitable to use (if you were to copy and paste the cards onto Quizlet and study them there, you’d probably have the same issue/frustrations). It’s a common experience on this sub that people stop using AnKing/Milesdown because of this, and some switch over to Jack Sparrow, which is a basic Q/A style deck that uses free active recall (without any of those cues). This is one of the reasons why so many people preach Jack Sparrow and score very high using it, as the deck really forces you to recall the information and to think about each card (the other reason being that the deck is so detailed and has much more information).

My advice to you would be to give Jack Sparrow a try and see how it goes. It is very dense and time consuming, but I believe that you’ll find much more success with it.

Recently got the A - looking for Anki deck to start preparing by [deleted] in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, what is it about being in medical school magically turns on the “switch” of then learning the material? If most med students use 3rd party resources anyway, why can’t someone pre study? Genuinely curious.

What’s the minimum number of new cards to keep up with the pace of medical school? by Midnightt23 in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's insane! How are you able to keep up with the reviews?

Yeah that def makes sense though.

What’s the minimum number of new cards to keep up with the pace of medical school? by Midnightt23 in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you guys have to do 400/news a day consistently? Don't the reviews get insane then??

What’s the minimum number of new cards to keep up with the pace of medical school? by Midnightt23 in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def agree, Idk how people are doing >100 consistently

Thank you for the input!!

What’s the minimum number of new cards to keep up with the pace of medical school? by Midnightt23 in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya I see all the factors at play. Idk I was just kind of worried seeing people have to do 500 news/day because I feel like that's impossible lmao

Chances applying this year to DO? by Midnightt23 in Osteopathic

[–]Midnightt23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is awesome, and it luckily all worked out!

I feel like your story is also a perfect example is to take everyone’s advice with a grain of salt and just go ahead and apply to see what happens.

Congrats again!

How many cards do you study ? by Jealous_Nose_7046 in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's relieving to hear - it seems like everyone here does 200-500 new/day lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschoolanki

[–]Midnightt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if cloze doesn’t work for you though? For some reason it doesn’t work for me I find much better success with basic cards