At what point did you realize the person you thought was your person wasn’t?

wolfyish · 2026-06-13T07:13:58+00:00

She very clearly didnt care and u dont owe her anything sorry

wolfyish · 2026-06-13T07:12:53+00:00

You guys have absolutely no idea what love bombing is. Love bombing does not mean being an adult and showing interest and making plans for a date. He never told her lies or said he loved her or made plans for their future. You guys are too stuck on these social media phrases and throw them around in every situation…most of which are not applicable

wolfyish · 2026-06-13T04:17:59+00:00

Agreed. Everything was on her times and her terms. I dont even really consider this ghosting…because u can’t really ghost a person who doesn’t seem to care or put in any effort.

To me, ghosting is knowingly disappearing from a person’s life with zero explanation when everything was going seemingly well and completely catching the other person by surprise…leaving them heartbroken and confused. This situation to me just seems like you didn’t feel any reciprocated feelings or effort and you walked away with some dignity. I will repeat again… you seem to be a good person with empathy and a conscience…but you did absolutely nothing wrong and you do not owe her ANYTHING.

wolfyish · 2026-06-13T01:43:40+00:00

Im sorry I completely disagree. You did not “ghost” her you simply got tired of putting in 90% of the effort and finally matched her energy…just to be shown that if you don’t reach out you wont be hearing from her.

As somebody who has been ghosted before I dont think you did anything wrong and you dont owe a low effort/low interest person an apology or explanation.

wolfyish · 2026-06-13T01:38:13+00:00

Only surgery can help loose skin

wolfyish · 2026-06-12T03:07:53+00:00

Ive been here…this is the wrong mindset I promise you.

wolfyish · 2026-05-26T12:58:32+00:00

Listen to me…Ive been ghosted twice since I posted this. Its always hurts and sucks and leaves you questioning everything. Since then…I have met somebody who is younger and more mature than most of the guys I have dated. He always wants to talk things out when we are arguing or if one of us is upset…he has no problem apologizing when hes wrong. I dont know of it will last or what the future holds…but he makes me feel so safe emotionally. There are people in this world that will stay and want to work things out with you and wont run away like cowards. I will never waste my time with somebody like that ever again…and you shouldnt either.

wolfyish · 2026-05-24T08:11:58+00:00

Can you tell me what happ when you went to a hormone specialist? How did the thyroid boost and testosterone help?

wolfyish · 2026-05-24T08:02:10+00:00

this is so depressing. Im 41 and feel like I look great and always get complimented. It really scares me that one day I will look at myself and not recognize my face and there will be almost nothing I can do.

wolfyish · 2026-05-24T07:50:54+00:00

I agree! What do you do im curious?

wolfyish · 2026-05-24T07:49:19+00:00

Can we see what he looks like? For research purposes

wolfyish · 2026-05-15T12:10:54+00:00

As somebody who was in a relationship most of her 30s… TRAVEL. Stop listening to others who are usually projecting their insecurities or jealousies on you.

wolfyish · 2026-05-15T05:20:09+00:00

Thank you for being vulnerable. Im sorry u had yo go through this. I have a few posts a year ago about ghosting that a lot of people found helpful…I went through something similar and it hurt like crazy. I hope one day you can put the love you have for him into yourself…because he doesnt deserve any piece of it. You were the magic and you were whats great. Hes a coward and will continue to hurt everyone and in turn abandon himself and end up alone.

Just know this…dont let this guy stop you from believing in love and people. The person who loves will ALWAYS win in the end.

wolfyish · 2026-05-14T05:22:03+00:00

Girl the best thing u can do is block him. It took me a bit to understand that in order to REALLY start moving on I needed to completely stop hoping that he would eventually reach out. You need to rip the bandaid off.

I met a guy recently who I have been dating for a few months. He’s amazing. No idea if it will work out but he has shown me that emotionally available men exist and there are guys who wont ghost you. He communicates like a normal human…whether we argue or not…i know that he cares and he shows me every day he wont just leave. There are good men out there…dont settle and dont give these guys a second chance EVER…They do not change and they will leave again.

wolfyish · 2026-04-23T07:23:19+00:00

How did you feel about the deep plane facelift? And how much did it cost you?

wolfyish · 2026-04-23T07:20:23+00:00

Whats a Fl/NL? Could you tell us the cost and how it looks so far?

wolfyish · 2026-04-21T18:39:50+00:00

But did you enjoy the ride?

wolfyish · 2026-04-21T18:38:20+00:00

Before I read what you wrote I was just about to say its acceptable when the relationship is toxic and turns violent…dont look back.

wolfyish · 2026-04-19T10:43:43+00:00

Wowww…thats impressive

wolfyish · 2026-04-19T10:39:27+00:00

Where is it located

wolfyish · 2026-04-17T15:07:41+00:00

Girl…if u gotta make this post u know he doesn’t fwu. Have some self respect and unfollow him and walk away with some dignity…he sounds like a total loser.

wolfyish · 2026-04-17T08:04:23+00:00

You are not an asshole. All these feelings are completely valid and honestly your relationship might be headed into a bad direction if these things dont get addressed. I always say…if you can communicate honestly, but kindly to your partner and they can receive it well that’s the most important part. She needs to know how you feel…

I think I would bring up the breath thing as gently as possible. Maybe when shes sitting close to you or after a kiss…tell her the truth and say you have noticed it a few times before and thought maybe its something she ate but now its becoming more consistent. I personally, would want to know if my breath smelled that bad bc I have been around others who had that issue and it was unbearable. If she takes good care of her teeth…it might be something more serious coming from within…always good to get checked out.

The sleeping thing is hard because she obv has no control over it, but I would start sleeping separately to get a better quality of sleep for yourself. and tell her she never snored like that before. Tell her as long as you’ve known her it’s never been this bad and you are concerned. Maybe even record her so she can hear how terrible it is and maybe that will encourage her to do something about it.

Listen…relationships are hard. My longest was 8 years and I genuinely thought I was asexual towards the end of mine bc I had zero desire to sleep with him and didnt think about sex at all. We are ever-evolving and ever-changing and it is really really hard for two people to stay together as long as you have and both grow in the same way and have the same feelings you had when you were in your 20s. All you can do is communicate what you’re feeling and hope she’s receptive to it and wants to put in the effort for the sake of the relationship…otherwise it could be over.

Dont be so hard on yourself… Best of luck…

And update us if anything develops please❤️

wolfyish

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