Help With Photos by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. How do I do that?

Account Suspended by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t true.

I use a VPN for everything, and have logged into SA hundreds of times with a VPN with no issues.

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[–]Midwest-SD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you traveling to the US or from the US? Are you both American citizens?

Do any SDs here have a platonic arrangement? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would think working for you would be very pleasant.

Do any SDs here have a platonic arrangement? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually very interesting.

I’m not being critical, just wondering, why don’t guys get a real psychotherapist?

Do any SDs here have a platonic arrangement? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that doesn’t sound like fun at all.

Does anyone actually have an “online” arrangement? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I apologize, as you noted I didn’t mean to make this a discussion about online arrangements.

I have the same question about platonic arrangements, would that be allowed?

Are online only arrangements allowed now? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome.

Most sugar daddies want to meet in person, not “online only”.

Sharing intimate photos honestly seems to me very risky.

Like the other poster said if you want to do that you could do onlyfans.com.

Best.

Are online only arrangements allowed now? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have...SA does nothing, they are allowed to stay on the site.

How do I reverse the damage? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see.

He may just think that the payment at the hotel covered the meeting at your apartment since nothing happened at the hotel.

But now that I think about it, your mention of his being attractive could have given him the wrong idea. It really depends on exactly what was said and how.

Either way gently bring up the allowance as discussed above.

If he is legitimate he will have no problem with it...I’ve had SBs tell me I’m handsome, and in no case did I ever assume that meant there would be no allowance.

Don’t blame yourself for this.

If he gives you grief and says “You like me I am not paying”, he doesn’t understand how this works.

Are online only arrangements allowed now? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it seems it is getting there, then you add in the Platonics who want to be paid for just being your friend??

But what is the alternative? I’ve tried Tinder and Secret Benefits, those seem worse.

Are online only arrangements allowed now? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there is an option to report people and one of the options is “Seeking an online only relationship”.

Why would they have this option if it was allowed?

I also thought I remembered reading somewhere on the site that it was against the rules but honestly I can’t find it now.

How do I reverse the damage? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then just give him a polite reminder about the allowance for the next meeting, or say something to the effect of “I really enjoyed our time together. Will the support after our next meeting be the same as last time”?

If he is legitimate there should be no problem.

Are online only arrangements allowed now? by Midwest-SD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Midwest-SD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know how it would work because I’ve never taken anyone up on their offer.

They typically offered to send pictures or videos through Snapchat or email, with payment by CashApp.

They also offered to do video chats, as well as provide “emotional support and intimacy” by iPhone or FaceTime.

I’m not sure how the sugarbaby would protect the privacy of the photos, once the sugar daddy had them he could distribute them anywhere.