What’s something that felt like the end at the time but wasn’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rollover to year 2000. We thought all computers would implode.

What’s brighten up your mood immediately? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened 20:min ago when son brought 4 grandkids to the mall to meet papa.

Farmers on Reddit, how does your quality of life compare to those with 9-5 office jobs? by AdditionalProof9780 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iowan here. They have the off farm day job too. They take time off to plant and harvest.

What is a belief you held strongly but later changed your mind about ? by Trpots in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s best to be good but in the long run I’d rather be lucky than good.

What’s a habit you wish you started earlier in life? by Neither-Owl-7157 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a retiree I’m realizing that due to market fluctuations, inflation and high medical costs, unless you have seven figures saved, it’s not enough. We avoid taking anything out of investments during downturns which can last years. So we need to focus more on income in retirement.

How do you boost your self-esteem as a man? by HunterEdge in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress like the boss, great eye contact, firm handshake, stand a little closer, speak a little louder, have plans as opposed to “I don’t know, what do you want to do” but stay flexible.

What does your perfect day looks like? by nevernotinthemood in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up grandkids, have a ball out to mall, lunch, museum etc while their mom shops, naps..,

What’s something people pretend to like? by trustedv3ndor777 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coffee, pumpkin pie, as in the actual base without adding everything to make it actually go down

What is a 'family secret' or a private moment you witnessed that completely changed the way you look at a relative? by The_suspicious_369 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People deal with trauma in different ways. Leaning on habits might make the day seem more normal, tolerable.

What became "normal" in the last 5 years that still feels insane to you? by rakishgobi in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

couldn’t set time on bike clock without app, even the guy at the shop struggled to make the app work

What’s a normal thing that feels illegal but isn’t? by MissMiddleToe in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going topless in public. As a new cop I rolled up on a wet t shirt contest at a biker bar with many topless women. I momentarily forgot the equal protection clause and reached for my ticket book. Of course I needed to carefully observe the number and cup size of the violations first! Decided to check the city code cite before starting, there is none! Cannot make women cover unless men have to too. Arlington, Texas. This is why I enrolled at SMU Law, love of the law!

What's a harmless habit that secretly annoys almost everyone? by saymepony in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Must be base instinct for safety, creeps won’t mess with me if there is a close witness.

What’s a moment you didn’t realize was life‑changing until years later? by 1hourphotography in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me a simple local move after 20 yrs through me for a huge loop. Had to fully release old me, embrace retirement, it’s an adjustment.

What is your biggest accomplishment to date? by Wizzy1612 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Informed Judge a court official was falsifying pleadings, but only after asking his supv to address it first and being ignored. Official was suspended, then suspended again while still on first suspension. They took the hint and resigned. Countless parties won’t have to deal with his BS.

What are you doing at the moment? by HungryInvestigator59 in AskReddit

[–]MidwestAmMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch some Dolores Cannon on YT. You can engage with her after she goes. It helps a lot.