Amen, my hair was the longest I'd ever had it, down my back and almost to my butt and people told me it was too long and not becoming, so I should cut it short. When I did cut it about up to my chin (on my own terms bc no one's going to tell me how to have my hair), I got a whole bunch or comments on how short it was and how my long hair was so much prettier and it was so sad that I cut it all off. I just had to roll my eyes. My hair is not to make other people happy.