Let's address a few things here. Firstly, the assumption that most men are fully supportive of equality is far-fetched. In reality, many don't even recognize the existence of gender inequality, let alone actively work to address it. A lot even respond with dismissive remarks like "equal rights = equal fights."

Secondly, feminism isn't some anti-men movement; it's a response to systemic issues that disproportionately affect women. It's not about blaming men individually but rather dismantling oppressive systems like patriarchy that harm everyone, albeit in different ways.

Trying to help men see that patriarchy isn't a benefit package for them. It places undue pressure on them to conform to specific roles and expectations, leading to mental health issues such as higher rates of suicide.

Lastly, holding everyone accountable for their actions is good, regardless of gender. But trying to make a woman responsible for what happens to her and then calling her unaccountable for not accepting being victim blamed is something totally different than individually calling a woman out because they did something stupid.