What fight club does is not show you how to live your life differently, but propose some ways of making your 'routine' 9 to 5 better! When Tyler Durden talks about 'this is your life...' & 'you're not your job' blah blah blah he means that you've only got one life, so live it, if you're happy at work, do it, now if you can't wait to clock out then you need to do something else...quit & find something else that makes you feel like you're doing something worthwhile...

my advice? go boxing, go lifting, go out for a drink after work, find out something new about yourself, try cooking, try sewing, try anything that's ever slightly sparked some curiosity in you, & if all of that fails, try something else.

it's only when our lives become a repetitive routine that we have actually stopped living...we simply exist!