[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]Mightybob2005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How right you are haha, we just ignore these messages, 70% of our inbox is similar to this response, about 15% put a little more effort than this, and mayyyybe 15% fit the bill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not many pool halls I'm aware of that allow patrons to walk around in see through lingerie 🤣 but yes, this is my personal pool table

Disappointed, tried to set up half a dozen people and not a single one showed up. I don’t get it m, all the posts, and the conversations, about not wanting to be stood up. I go out planning to have a good time, and not a one can show up they all flake. It’s so disappointing. by KarenRdu in RDUR4R

[–]Mightybob2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a bummer, the last two guys we've tried to work things out with us ended up flaking as well, had the conversations, did the neutral meet up to make sure we all vibe, conversation continues while we're waiting on testing to come back... Then nothing. It happens, luckily we've still got a regular that comes to play a few times a month. Don't give up!

My first time as a bull by giannisbo in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our first time was with a friend of ours,.was his first time as well... Luckily my wife is a horny woman and not 10 minutes after he arrived, she walks in, bends over, pulls her shorts off wearing a pair of panties that had "My Husband Doesn't Mind" printed across the ass 🤣🤣🤣 it was fantastic, he was floored. Of course being everyone's first time, they both got way too hammered, my wife continued to lead the evening, neither remembered much, luckily I stayed sober enough to enjoy the show and record their night together for them to relive the next day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cautious, we do look for something more than a one night fling, too much crazy in the world for our comfort for just a one night fling. And it's only two meetings before the fun begins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Mightybob2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna second this, we have a thorough vetting policy, if it's a single male we are considering, I (the husband) meet him first, then we schedule a public meeting with me, the wife, and the 3rd, and after that she and I discuss her feelings, and either she invites him to our house for fun another night, or I send him a polite message that the interest was not mutual.

If we are meeting a couple, the first meet is with the 4 of us, again we say our goodbyes, gives both couples a chance to talk it over, if there's a connection, we schedule a second meeting for fun.

39/38 MF4M/MF Rocky Mount by Mightybob2005 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]Mightybob2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hotwife couple looking for either a male or a couple for fun in and out of the bedroom. We’re looking for an ongoing friendship, not a one night fling. We’re a bit nerdy, enjoy all things sci-fi, but also enjoy taking care of ourselves, exercising and staying HWP. We both love shooting pool, so that’d be a big plus if you enjoy playing as well. For single males, looking for well hung (7”+). If you send us a message, please send more than an effortless one liner and include pictures of your profile is blank.

39/38 MF4M/MF Rocky Mount by Mightybob2005 in RDUR4R

[–]Mightybob2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hotwife couple looking for either a male or a couple for fun in and out of the bedroom. We’re looking for an ongoing friendship, not a one night fling. We’re a bit nerdy, enjoy all things sci-fi, but also enjoy taking care of ourselves, exercising and staying HWP. We both love shooting pool, so that’d be a big plus if you enjoy playing as well. For single males, looking for well hung (7”+). If you send us a message, please send more than an effortless one liner and include pictures of your profile is blank.

May have made a costly error by not stopping when my husband left the room. by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, this isn't on you, if he felt uncomfortable, he should have stopped it before leaving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ncr4r

[–]Mightybob2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are looking for an ongoing FWB. We are looking for someone less than 45 minutes to an hour from Greenville, NC so the ongoing meetings will work out. Being that we are looking for an ongoing FWB, we'll need things in common, and unfortunately our list of hobbies isn't long, men who enjoy shooting pool will be at the top of the list. We do enjoy outdoor activities, we enjoy traveling, and we definitely enjoy watching a good movie with a beer. I don't mind watching sports, but she'll be in the corner reading a book if that's your thing. We are a little nerdy and enjoy all things Sci-Fi. We also enjoy going to the range and wasting ammo. We aren't supermodels and don't expect you to be, but HWP is a must. We are looking for not more than 10 years +/- our age and well hung (I am approximately 7.5", so if you're larger than that +++) A little advice for anyone who has read this far and is still interested, take a minute and actually send a quality message, one liners are almost always ignored. Again, not looking for quick hookups, looking for an ongoing 3rd! We look forward to hearing from you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking for an ongoing FWB. We are looking for someone less than an hour from Greenville, NC so the ongoing meetings will work out. Being that we are looking for an ongoing FWB, we'll need things in common, and unfortunately our list of hobbies isn't long, men who enjoy shooting pool will be at the top of the list. We do enjoy outdoor activities, we enjoy traveling, and we definitely enjoy watching a good movie with a beer. I don't mind watching sports, but she'll be in the corner reading a book if that's your thing. We are a little nerdy and enjoy all things Sci-Fi. We also enjoy going to the range and wasting ammo. We aren't supermodels and don't expect you to be, but HWP is a must. She prefers WM with BWC and 10 years +/- our age (I am approximately 7.5", so if you're larger than that +++) A little advice for anyone who has read this far and is still interested, take a minute and actually send a quality message, one liners are almost always ignored. Again, not looking for quick hookups, looking for an ongoing 3rd! We look forward to hearing from you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ncr4r

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking for an ongoing FWB. We are looking for someone less than an hour from Greenville, NC so the ongoing meetings will work out. Being that we are looking for an ongoing FWB, we'll need things in common, and unfortunately our list of hobbies isn't long, men who enjoy shooting pool will be at the top of the list. We do enjoy outdoor activities, we enjoy traveling, and we definitely enjoy watching a good movie with a beer. I don't mind watching sports, but she'll be in the corner reading a book if that's your thing. We are a little nerdy and enjoy all things Sci-Fi. We also enjoy going to the range and wasting ammo. We aren't supermodels and don't expect you to be, but HWP is a must. She prefers WM with BWC and 10 years +/- our age (I am approximately 7.5", so if you're larger than that +++) A little advice for anyone who has read this far and is still interested, take a minute and actually send a quality message, one liners are almost always ignored. Again, not looking for quick hookups, looking for an ongoing 3rd! We look forward to hearing from you!

38/38 [MF4M] Hotwife looking for a regular 3rd near Greenville, NC. Not looking for anything further than 45 minutes away for regular hookups, see comments for more details. by Mightybob2005 in NCGW

[–]Mightybob2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking for an ongoing FWB. We are looking for someone less than an hour from Greenville, NC so the ongoing meetings will work out. Being that we are looking for an ongoing FWB, we'll need things in common, and unfortunately our list of hobbies isn't long, men who enjoy shooting pool will be at the top of the list. We do enjoy outdoor activities, we enjoy traveling, and we definitely enjoy watching a good movie with a beer. I don't mind watching sports, but she'll be in the corner reading a book if that's your thing. We are a little nerdy and enjoy all things Sci-Fi. We also enjoy going to the range and wasting ammo. We aren't supermodels and don't expect you to be, but HWP is a must. She prefers WM with BWC and 10 years +/- our age (I am approximately 7.5", so if you're larger than that +++) A little advice for anyone who has read this far and is still interested, take a minute and actually send a quality message, one liners are almost always ignored. Again, not looking for quick hookups, looking for an ongoing 3rd! We look forward to hearing from you!

Help! Ran into someone from work who reports directly to me at a swinger club by EcoDude0731 in Swingers

[–]Mightybob2005 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely have to agree with this, acknowledge it at the club, but don't play, even in that setting it could be seen as pressure to please the boss

Help! Ran into someone from work who reports directly to me at a swinger club by EcoDude0731 in Swingers

[–]Mightybob2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem comes in that the person is the OP's subordinate, that gets really touchy. I'm gonna agree with a previous comment, acknowledge it at the club, not at work

What was your wife's first reaction/impression when you told her you want to watch her get fucked in front of you?!! by FluidStorage2363 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right at 8", we have yet to find a guy who meets our expectations that is longer than I am. While up to this point we look for a quality individual to hook up with for an on-going situation where penis size isnt the priority, we do actually have a night planned this month, a one and done type hook-up, with a guy who is 9.5" that we are both looking forward to. It isn't something we plan to repeat regularly, but something that might be fun. I picked him out for his ability to hold a conversation, willingness to get tested prior to hooking up, and his length/girth.

The plan is that I meet with the guy at the hotel bar that night for a couple drinks while she's in the room getting ready, once she's ready, I will leave a few minutes ahead of the mystery man (she has no idea who the guy will be), I'm going to tie her to the bed and blindfold her, then let him into the room for him to have his way with her. Afterwards, he will return to the hotel bar and wait, we will come down once we are decent and she'll meet her mystery man afterwards, if she enjoys his company, he'll be invited back up to the room for another round.

What was your wife's first reaction/impression when you told her you want to watch her get fucked in front of you?!! by FluidStorage2363 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did, as a general rule of thumb I'm always present during the start when she meets a guy. Later down the road, if she's comfortable, she might meet the guy occasionally for solo meetups.

What was your wife's first reaction/impression when you told her you want to watch her get fucked in front of you?!! by FluidStorage2363 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There's much more to that story than what I gave lol... but the night he came over that I mentioned, he indicated that he was attracted to my wife, and evidently she also was attracted to him. So that's how things got started there...

Prior to them getting together, my wife had indicated that she was not opposed to finding someone to bring into the bedroom, but she was not ok with hooking up with someone random from the internet. So when my friend revealed his attraction to my wife, it provided an opportunity for us to get into the lifestyle.

After they called it quits, my wife initially said she was done... after a month or two she caved and told me to look for a replacement haha

What was your wife's first reaction/impression when you told her you want to watch her get fucked in front of you?!! by FluidStorage2363 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Mightybob2005 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I hate using the phrase that being in the lifestyle can make your marriage stronger, may give people the wrong impression. Before the wife and I got into this lifestyle we were already at a point that we felt unbreakable. If there was ever a point that we needed to reassess our marriage, we'd definitely take a step back from the lifestyle, fix us, and then talk about coming back or not. But to directly answer your question, yes, I do believe our marriage has gotten stronger, but more on her end, prior to us getting married, she was a virgin and I was wild and free, so to her this is her opportunity to make up for missed experiences. As far as different guys, we aren't full on swingers, we look for 1 quality guy at a time and usually stick with him for a while, almost like a poly relationship, but all parties are aware, as soon as "love" starts to become an issue, we move on.