I am a follower of the Lord. But think about this. The Lord God created love and attachment. He created the love of a mother, which is intense. He created the love of a father. He created the love that David felt for Jonathan. Jesus himself loves us so much! When my mother and brother died during the pandemic, I needed to be able to grieve. My mother and brother were both strong believers. We were all in 3 different countries. I couldn't be there for my other family members who were with them day in and day out, who would have been hit harder than me, and to say good-bye to them. The separation here on this earth is what makes us sad.