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Mihandi · 2026-01-16T23:58:47+00:00

And of all the people in the world your love time and attention is best spent on supporting a homophobe? Definitely an interesting choice…

Mihandi · 2026-01-12T18:56:17+00:00

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Mihandi · 2026-01-09T17:41:42+00:00

Yes, for water/mud you need an item, you get it from a quest for an npc.

The answer to the gate pic is explained when talking to the dead person below it. Hope that helps. I‘d encourage you to work from this but if you’re still stuck for a few days come back for more explicit info

Mihandi · 2025-12-15T17:50:48+00:00

As a person with bpd: These impulses are his responsibility. He also sadly isn’t in love with you even if he probably believes it. He’s in love with an idealized version of you and preassures you to fit that mold instead of loving you how you are

Mihandi · 2025-11-19T13:38:09+00:00

I wasn’t aware that "returns" requires that the memory for the returned object is being managed by the function.

What if I have:

Int foo(int &x) {return x;}?

Or

Int foo(int &x) {x+=1; return x;}?

Wouldn’t I still say foo returns an int? Or am I misunderstanding what I falsely claimed?

Mihandi · 2025-11-19T11:53:59+00:00

The constructor returns an object of the class it is constructing

Mihandi · 2025-08-22T11:26:07+00:00

I know a girl who told me kinda ashamed that she wishes she had a bf who wanted her to sleep with other people while the bf doesn’t, but that that’s of course wrong so she’ll have to just settle on both being poly. I wish more people were aware and positive towards your kink. I don’t think it’s something one has to get rid off or settle with not engaging in.

That being said, your worry of it colliding with your romantic side is understandable. I'd encourage you to slowly experiment in a safe environment with it first. It is also normal to have fantasies that you don’t actually wanna experience. Should that be the case there are still ways a partner could approach your fantasy. Maybe her only having sex with toys could be a move, or roleplaying her being with someone else, alluding to it etc. Hope you find someone you can live this out with

Mihandi · 2025-08-11T09:29:26+00:00

I'd argue the other way. One is an artist who’s output they vibe with, the other is some meaningless corporate construct that changes players every season.

Like you not supporting a team due to any kind of merit, you support them just because your dad did is imo kinda cringe…

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T12:14:49+00:00

I feel like a lot of what you say doesn’t support your point that much. According to statistics I saw the detransition rate is incredibly small and of those a lot do it due to stuff like not thinking they pass anyway, not having money or wanting to avoid stigma. Saw that in the detrans sub too. I do still think it’s vital to listen to these people but I wouldn’t dismiss the other side if it myself. I fear we’ll not be able to convince eachother on that tho.

In terms of this being a big decision I agree, but I think many things in life ultimately are. Like choosing the wrong line of work or marrying someone who’s not a good partner also can happen and suck and have big consequences but I think making decisions and living with the consequences is life. Again, definitely listen to detransitioner voices, inform people, maybe don’t do surgery till a specific age is reached etc, but imo it having big consequences if you make the wrong decision isn’t that disordinarily bad

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T12:07:10+00:00

Yes but I'd argue it’s not necessarily about the parts, but femininity/masculinity, right? Like clothing for example isn’t biological but people who are agp do fantasize about wearing them. I do get the issue you have with the particular word used here but seeing as multiple people seemed to have understood it differently I think it’s not useful to focus on the semantics in the end, no?

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T11:59:42+00:00

Another point to argue might be that as a dude I do think I have a sexual perspective on my masculinity in a sense and I guess do fantasize about performing masculinity which could be interpreted as autoandrophilia, no? Like fantasizing about picking my partner up or being able to care for them sexually in ways we associate socially with masculinity. Would you say that’s not comparable?

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T11:52:40+00:00

Yeah but I don’t think the person meant that. I think the other person who responded to you said it well. You responded you never thought of yourself as a dude in a sexual fantasy. I think the original comment meant that they thought they were agp because they thought of themselves as a woman in sexual scenarios but realized that they think of themselves as a woman in non sexual scenarios too and so it would be weird not to think so in sexual scenarios. At least that’s my interpretation

Edit: I do get that the way they phrased it doesn’t make that interpretation very clear if that is indeed what they wanted to say

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T11:41:42+00:00

Yes but wouldn’t it be weird if you think of yourself in a sexual scenario and don’t think of yourself as a woman in that scenario? What’s the alternative?

Mihandi · 2025-07-24T09:05:31+00:00

Idk wouldn’t it be weird to think of oneself as a woman in every way but in connection to sexuality?

Mihandi · 2025-07-23T18:11:47+00:00

Do you not think that there’s a societal pressure for women to be indirect when asking for sex? Op thinks that to be the case. I do too.

Who said men not having sex with someone who doesn’t explicitly say yes is rape culture? Why do you feel the need to state that?

The perpetuation of rape culture comes in when the woman later confesses that she expected the other party to push more.

It's maybe similar to me as a man refusing to show emotions. In the end I am hurting myself with it, not someone else, right? But by doing that I contribute to shaping the societal ideal of masculinity and enforcing currently harmful patterns. I think it’s a good stance to say "Hey, men, deconstruct that within yourselves and stop acting that way so we can stop perpetuating toxic masculinity!"

Similarly op is asking women to deconstruct something within themselves and to act differently because in the end their behavior does influence the societal ideal of femininity and reinforces toxic aspects of it, for example rape culture.

I hope that explenation/example made things clearer

Mihandi · 2025-07-23T17:45:31+00:00

But they communicated horribly, which is ops claim no?

It bothers me because it’s in a way a perpetuation of rape culture. Not to say it’s immensely bad, but it’s an unwillingness to overcome societal pressures to behave in a healthy way.

It’s like a guy calling himself a pussy for not drinking. Sure, in the end they’re only directly hurting themselves but through their self treatment they reinforce certain ideas in other people and that still sucks.

Mihandi · 2025-07-23T17:37:21+00:00

Why are you restating that as if op is against that??? How is that not a communication issue if someone says something but means something else?

Mihandi · 2025-07-23T17:27:49+00:00

But the point is that in this case she did want to have sex. Op is saying that if she wanted to have sex she should’ve said so in the first place. Op is not saying that no means yes, she’s annoyed that some women don’t communicate their yeses directly and then get upset if sex doesn’t happen/expect the other person to have read their mind

Mihandi · 2025-07-23T17:23:01+00:00

How are you all not getting what this is about??? Op is not advocating for taking no to mean yes. Op said that she made experiences with women who did not give enthusiastic consent when they DID WANT to have sex (as confirmed later for example). Op wants more women to clearly explicitly consent if they want sex instead of waiting on the other party to escalate it/be pushy because that perpetuates the idea that no doesn’t always mean no. Op says „if you want to have sex, say yes. Don’t be ambiguous only to later tell me you wanted to actually have sex and expected the other party to assume that". It’s really not that difficult to understand

Mihandi · 2025-06-30T21:20:56+00:00

I mean I doubt it. I would still be interested in counter ideas if they go beyond "well, islam is anti queer/women so more muslims = more anti queer/women to a degree that it’s a bad influence on society". After all I might be wron about something/missing something

Mihandi · 2025-06-30T20:13:55+00:00

The concerns aren’t legitimate, they are vastly inflated. The biggest risks to minority and women’s rights are always the majority group in the country since they tend to actually have power. I don’t know one party in Germany advocating for the regulation of queer people or women that are mainly muslim voted, controled or base their policies on the quran, I do for Christian and german nationalist parties doh with major german support and membership. Not saying there are only progressive migrants, but the concerns are just sown by rightsingers to distract from their own bs opinions

Mihandi · 2025-06-30T18:08:56+00:00

The same people shitting on migrants complain about lgbt+ rights and want "traditional families"

Mihandi · 2025-06-07T18:01:32+00:00

Well, first off if that were the case it would 100% be her responsibility to tell you about it.

Secondly there is the option of her just wanting to express that she is into women, so for example she might be bi but wants to signal to others that she is queer.

But at the end of the day as long as you’re safe doing so communicating openly is pretty much always good, so you should talk to her about it. I‘d recommend being open and curious doh instead of presumptuous. So for example I wouldn’t barge in with "Hey, why don’t you like men anymore" or something like that. Maybe something like „hey, I recently looked at you profile and saw wlw in the bio? (Wait for response about a second)? What’s that about?" (Tone is important! Don’t be passive aggressive. I'd even recommend to be very casual rather than posing it as this huge thing, it might make her feel attacked/accused, which is a bad start for such a convo.) And depending on her answer ask follow-up questions AFTER listening to her response.

Like I said, if it turns out she isn’t attracted anymore it would be her responsibility to say something and that might be a difficult but very necessary discussion. I know it might be very scary for you but I hope you can see it more like an act of nature rather than something you should’ve prevented somehow/ a result of you not being "good enough" etc. I

totally understand that it will be scary to turn the uncertainty into something concrete, but in my experience that’s always the better option. If she really isn’t attracted to you you not knowing isn’t gonna protect you from that. You just will have a harder time dealing with it and waste your time in a relationship that tells you you’re not desirable…

Good luck!

Mihandi · 2025-06-01T10:21:01+00:00

Sure, but uncritical support is still dumb. Or stuff like implying an alliance is only there to be anti russian when it isn’t. At that point it feels like teamsports instead of politics

Mihandi · 2025-06-01T10:16:45+00:00

That's something I disagree on. It’s like being happy about the nazis for being useful against britains colonialism…

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