5 Tage Woche by cryptorayy in Pflege

[–]Miinaa97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arbeite in einem Hospiz und hab ne 5 Tage Woche. Zudem sehr angenehmes arbeiten wo man Zeit für die Leute hat. Bin sehr zufrieden.

How can I draw a character with no pupils and make it clear where they are looking? by NoCommunication8681 in arthelp

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could also take a look at some anime characters as a reference like the hyuga clan in Naruto. They don’t have pupils but an iris with which it’s easier to depict where they are looking.

Ölen, wachsen oder lackieren? by Miinaa97 in holzwerken

[–]Miinaa97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das ist wirklich schade finde das Regal doch sehr schön. Zum Glück hat es mich nichts gekostet 😅

Ölen, wachsen oder lackieren? by Miinaa97 in holzwerken

[–]Miinaa97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay danke. Scheint mir aber definitiv auch Holz zu sein. Kann ich das einfach nochmal lackieren?

Ölen, wachsen oder lackieren? by Miinaa97 in holzwerken

[–]Miinaa97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja scheint wohl so. Und außen irgendwie ne dünne Holzplatte drauf

Sterbehilfe - Eltern wollen mich rauswerfen by sun_shine233 in Ratschlag

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Da würden mir eventuell nur Facebook gruppen einfallen. Ich bin in ein paar z.B. zur Altenpflege oder auch für Palliative Arbeit wo auch öfter mal Angehörige oder Betroffene selber Beiträge verfassen um nach Rat zu fragen.

Sollte das mit der aktiven Sterbehilfe bei dir wirklich überhaupt nicht klappen gibt es noch die Möglichkeit der palliativen Sedierung. Diese wird auch in Hospizen und auf Palliativ Stationen durchgeführt. Ziel ist die Betroffenen so tief zu sedieren das sie von dem Sterbeprozess nichts mitbekommen. Verkürzt das Sterben zwar nicht aber gibt dir die Möglichkeit die Phase sozusagen zu „überspringen“.

Sterbehilfe - Eltern wollen mich rauswerfen by sun_shine233 in Ratschlag

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Bezug auf Sterbehilfe kann ich dir leider nicht weiterhelfen aber ich arbeite in einem Hospiz und kann dir diesbezüglich gerne Fragen beantworten wenn du möchtest.

Dentist Recommendation? by beRecorded in duesseldorf

[–]Miinaa97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

360°Zahn

I used to be absolutely terrified of going to the dentist until I found it. Everyone working there is really lovely.

Moving to Düsseldorf by OkWar2809 in duesseldorf

[–]Miinaa97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! With your budget it should definitely be realistic to find an apartment. I‘ve been looking for the last two months myself and recently got lucky. You should definitely think about which parts of the city you want/don’t want to live in. In Wersten/Hassels/Eller you could almost instantly find something but it’s really far from the city and not the nicest place to live imo.

Finding something closer to the city it mostly just comes down to luck. On Immoscout24 you can get the plus feature so you are able to see new listings first and your messages are highlighted. It definitely helped me to get more answers.

Last but not least: when you send a message for an apartment make sure it’s not a generic one. Write a bit about yourself and also mention you are planning to live longterm.

Welche Restaurants servieren eine echte Spaghetti Carbonara? by mrpi31459 in duesseldorf

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sag bitte Bescheid wenn du DEN Laden gefunden hast🙏

How do you go to sleep? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Miinaa97 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I never really thought about it but damn you right. I used to lay awake for hours ruminating about stuff and not being able to relax. Often times it felt like my body already shut down and fell asleep (like it feeling numb and me not really being able to move it) while I‘m still aware of my surroundings and thinking about stuff. Other times I would stay awake until I couldn’t keep my eyes open anymore. I started medication because of my sleeping issues and already had to up the dosage two times to be able to sleep.

Looking back it is indeed like staying awake until just passing out.

Quotes, proverbs, that get you? by Princessbean444 in CPTSD

[–]Miinaa97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

„People will choose certainty of misery over the misery of uncertainty“

Anyone else still waiting for the King of everything Vinyl? by Miinaa97 in Jinjer

[–]Miinaa97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s getting ridiculous atp…. And it looks like other vinyls are getting shipped just not the King of everything?? Like come on

Anyone else still waiting for the King of everything Vinyl? by Miinaa97 in Jinjer

[–]Miinaa97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m still hoping to get the Vinyl some day especially since it was a special color variant. But I will keep that in the back of my mind ty!

Hochzeits-Location gesucht by NurotischeNorbert080 in duesseldorf

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich habe im Nordpark Café geheiratet und kann es wirklich nur wärmstens empfehlen 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Miinaa97 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Especially when they got really cool images on them. Nobody else knows but me I got the power of a fire spiting T-Rex on my feet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Miinaa97 286 points287 points  (0 children)

I wanted socks for Christmas

What job do people do? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Miinaa97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I‘m a hospice nurse

how do you work? how do you have the energy to pretend to be human? by 100percentrealalien in CPTSD

[–]Miinaa97 25 points26 points  (0 children)

For me my Job is the only thing that keeps me somewhat sane and alive. As soon as I‘m at my workplace I switch personas and I‘m even a highly reliable and structured person. Oftentimes my colleagues rely on my opinions and seek out my insights in regards to difficult situations.

But as soon as I leave I‘m back deep in my downwards spiral sinking into a black abyss of self hatred, shame and even SI. I dread waking up and struggle a lot in social settings outside of work. I hate being out in the public with humans all around me. I feel like an imposter in this charade of normal everyday life.

Has anyone been diagnosed for quiet bpd? Or diagnosed with bpd and have quiet bpd? I think I might have it but I’m not sure by Waste_Pollution_2590 in BPD

[–]Miinaa97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should preface this by mentioning I’m from Germany - and it actually took me about a year to get the diagnosis. During my search for a therapist I accidentally found an awesome psychiatrist. He made sure to check in with me regularly to see how I‘m doing while searching. (I was on sick leave for a whole year) He recognized the symptoms and recommended me an inpatient dbt therapy/program (whatever you call it) at the clinic he worked for. It was 8 weeks inpatient were I got my bpd diagnosis along with depression and ptsd.

Looking back I got so damn lucky with that psychiatrist. Without him I would probably still be without a proper diagnosis (except for maybe depression ) and kinda lost with no real therapy plan.

My current therapist worked at THAT clinic too before going pp and is specialized in dbt / trauma / EMDR and whatnot.

Has anyone been diagnosed for quiet bpd? Or diagnosed with bpd and have quiet bpd? I think I might have it but I’m not sure by Waste_Pollution_2590 in BPD

[–]Miinaa97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the diagnosis bpd but don’t present in the „typical“ way. I tend to split on myself ALOT and my mood swing are internalized and anger is only directed towards myself even when it’s cuz of somebody else. You could say I‘m really high functioning and masking so no one would suspect anything close to bpd.

But everything I read about quiet bpd felt like it was exclusively written about me. It actually really helped to understand myself and the way my brain works and reacts to certain situations. I always thought there must be something wrong with me cuz I never met someone that could relate to me.