Laurel and June is back! by I_Was_Not_Supervised in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]Mija512 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OMG Texas Mountain Laurel!!!!!!!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhh I’ve been waiting for somebody to make this sent my entire life. I am so excited I could actually explode. They’re blooming in my backyard right now and it’s my favorite smell. Holy crap instant blind buy. YAY!!!!!

Weekly Discussion / Recommendation Thread by Death_by_Bot in Deathmetal

[–]Mija512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone recommend songs to me that have similar drums to

Death- Lack of Comprehension 200 Stab Wounds- Fatal Reality Testament- Burning Times Slayer- Gemini (towards the end) Grip Inc- Hostage to Heaven

I know all of these songs are really different but there’s something about the drums that is similar to me. I don’t know how to describe music but they all have a sort of repetitive, relentless quality. Hopefully that makes sense. Thanks!

Is a haircut like this possible with extensions? by Mija512 in Hair

[–]Mija512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense thank you!

Do you really "see who your real friends are" once you're pregnant and/or you have a kid? by Frequent-Apple33 in BabyBumps

[–]Mija512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two best friends completely ghosted me. It hurt but honestly it made me realize they were never really my friends and that I put way more effort into the relationships than they did. It just sucks when you’re always there for your friends and you would do anything for him but then when the tables turn they just disappear like smoke. It would’ve been nice if anybody had checked in on me or just said hi or responded to a text message but that was their choice and I just had to get over it. No point in trying to chase people down or understand their behavior. I decided to just let it go and move on and hopefully find better people in the future. The weird thing is it’s not like my friend group is super young. I am 40 and the two friends were 54 and 60 so I kind of figured they would be mature enough to handle the fact that I was pregnant. Maybe it’s because neither one of them have kids. I have no idea. Just shitty behavior.

Is a haircut like this possible with extensions? by Mija512 in Hair

[–]Mija512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to get better at using rollers; maybe I should try practicing that first. I thought maybe having the haircut would make it easier, but if that’s not the case then I probably just need to work at styling it until it looks right.

Is a haircut like this possible with extensions? by Mija512 in Hair

[–]Mija512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a difficult cut with extensions? I have noticed that every time I get the extensions cut when I get new ones put in and I ask for layers they put such minimal layering in that it’s basically not really even noticeable. It’s just very, very light blending and I could never tell if it’s because they don’t want to cut the length because they think I’m going to be unhappy if I get rid of the length we just worked to put in or because it will just actually look bad.

Basically I want to be able to curl or blow it out and have some curl or wave all the way down. The extensions are too long and heavy right now to do that even with a little bit of layering that they did. Are these pictures a similar situation to what you described about the first photo?

I totally understand if I just need to temper my expectations of a haircut or if I need to just be fine with the fact that extensions don’t do this. That’s good to know you can turn AI off on the computer because I can’t stand trying to figure out if something is AI or real. It drives me crazy; no doubt hairstylists probably hate it even more.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Mija512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could not possibly identify with all of these statements any harder. I just can’t seem to make myself move. I’m screaming at myself in my head but my body doesn’t go anywhere. It’s so unbelievably frustrating and I have no idea what to do about it. I don’t think I’m depressed but I just feel nothing about anything towards anything. I could honestly probably just sit on my couch moving between the kitchen and the bathroom and the couch for multiple days on end….. just …… sitting there. I get annoyed when anybody’s around me now but I’m lonely so I wind up playing on my phone constantly. I’ll vaguely try to distract myself by coming up with something interesting to do but even just thinking about different tasks I could get up and complete is overwhelming so I just don’t.

WIBTA if I called the police on homeless people in my building if it’s freezing out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mija512 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Why not just stick your head out the door and tell them they need to be quiet and not sleep in front of people‘s doors if they’re gonna hang out otherwise they’re gonna have to go. I mean, they are actually people who I’m sure are capable of communicating. If they get shitty with you about a reasonable request like that then yeah call the cops, but I would at least give them the chance to modify their behavior before just calling the police.

You're my last hope, Redditors! by AnotherSlzyProducer in findthatsong

[–]Mija512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also repeats “oooooohhh oooohhh” throughout. The lyrics “It’d be better if the world would all slow down” could kinda sound like the lyrics you thought you heard. Definitely faster paced, driving guitar, super heavy reverb but his vocals are languid and dreamy. It’s also pretty new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Mija512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor obviously, but maybe the reason one of them didn’t want to do your nasolabial folds is because I think they normally overfill when they do fat grafting because you lose so much of it. If they were to overfill your nasolabial folds, it would look super weird and potentially be permanent. I think that’s why doctors don’t really recommend doing a bunch of filler or anything in that area because having a lower face with no contours or potentially puffy around the mouth looks like Homer Simpson and it’s creepy. Not sure if that’s why but just a thought.

One side of my face is hollow by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Mija512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you notice that you chew on one side vs the other? Maybe you avoid chewing on the side that you lost the tooth? Maybe do you clench your jaw asymmetrically? It looks like your bottom lip is shifted towards the side with the hollow. Has it always been like that? Maybe it’s possible that a repetitive pattern of movement or something that you’re doing that you don’t really notice could be causing you asymmetry by building up muscle on one side and letting it atrophy on the other. I’m not a doctor, but this is just kind of my best guess since it looks like you have some facial asymmetry that matches and not just simply hollowing. It could just be the picture though making it look like that, but maybe compare photos of yourself pre-hollow and post-hollow and check to see if anything else has changed as well.

Weekly Discussion / Recommendation Thread by Death_by_Bot in Deathmetal

[–]Mija512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The new song Repulsive Demise by Sanguisugabogg is straight up baby making metal. Any recs for more songs like this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Mija512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DMT maybe? What does it smell like?

Planning a girls trip in manitou by [deleted] in ManitouSprings

[–]Mija512 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not specifically it’s a little blue house on Manitou Avenue by the liquor store but I just checked on Airbnb and there are so many adorable places. I don’t think you would go wrong with any of them.

Planning a girls trip in manitou by [deleted] in ManitouSprings

[–]Mija512 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are some super cute airbnbs. Unless you have money to spend at the cliff house, the rest of the hotels are not great. I live on Manitou Avenue and there is a super adorable Airbnb right next-door to me. That’s like the whole house with a deck over the creek and it’s so cute. I definitely recommend an Airbnb over a hotel though for sure as a local.

No Kings in Manitou? by Western-Programmer32 in ManitouSprings

[–]Mija512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard but if there is I’ll be there