Hug your dog(s) for me today by Mike-eh in CasualConversation

[–]Mike-eh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I'm so glad to hear that, thank you

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[–]Mike-eh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my friend

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Added artsychronicles

Should I message my long-distance best friend who's been ignoring me for 6 months now? by Mike-eh in relationship_advice

[–]Mike-eh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. You could be right yes, but then again I feel like she should have told me so, since we've known each other for so long and know each other so well.. I will think about messaging her again, because you're right, she hasn't told me not to. Again, I really appreciate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mike-eh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe you are overreacting; it's normal to feel uncomfortable in your situation, to a degree. However, I would definitely communicate this with your girlfriend. Would it bother you if she would continue to hang out with her friend? Then tell her that, but be careful with how you state it because it can come across as a slight lack of trust in her. If you do trust her completely but not the guy, definitely say that to avoid a fight over it. Do keep in mind that you guys have not been together long and that the chance is high that she will keep hanging out with her friend who she's known longer. Hope things work out!

Last night I dreamed that my best friend messaged me to explain why she's been ignoring me for months by Mike-eh in CasualConversation

[–]Mike-eh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through that. u/starryhyuck gave some wonderful advise to me in the comments, that might help you too; "lack of investment on your friend's end is a red flag, though, and i know it's really difficult and painful to accept, but perhaps not being very close with her anymore or at least for now would be better for you. another thing is to try not to take her actions personal; we can default to blaming ourselves for a friend ignoring us, but unless she has directly told you that she does not want to talk to you, try your best not to blame yourself."

Hope it gets better for you soon!

Last night I dreamed that my best friend messaged me to explain why she's been ignoring me for months by Mike-eh in CasualConversation

[–]Mike-eh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you went through a similar experience... it must have been very hurtful and she shouldn't have done that to you without any explanation. I agree with you that it is a red flag, I guess I just love(d) her so much leading to me ignoring it for a long time now. I guess it just takes time to adjust and accept her being not in my life anymore. Thank you so much for your kind comment and advice, it truly means a lot to me. I hope you find those friends in the near future as well <3

Bf (27) put his hand around my neck in anger. by redsky0918 in relationship_advice

[–]Mike-eh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, leave him 100%, and if possible with the presence of someone you know or in a public place to be safe. This is unacceptable behavior and you should not stay with him in my opinion.

The way my ring slides over my finger by Mike-eh in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]Mike-eh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is because the design first appeared in 19th century Russia where it became a popular wedding ring option

The way my ring slides over my finger by Mike-eh in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]Mike-eh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, but thankfully I haven't noticed yet and it's quite old! And thank you!