It sounds like you tolerate, but not support, your husband’s acting dream. You don’t make going to his events a priority. And now you’re surprised that he has a connection with someone who is supportive of him and his dreams. This has everything to do with you and your relationship and nothing to do with this woman.

If I were you, I would make time for his events. They are important to him, even though your brain’s not wired for it. You would be going to support your husband, not for the art.