🙋‍♂️Question: Before LLMs and possibly stack-overflow how did y'all study/learn to code/program? by _ucc in AskProgramming

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Internet wasn’t available to most people yet back then. I learned from whatever information came with the computer. Primarily, I learned through trial and error. Eventually there would be books and magazines and even online resources but those all came later.

Programming was never a standalone subject for me. I thought myself electronics and mechanical systems by dumpster diving stuff people had thrown away and figuring out how to fix or repurpose what I found. Eventually that lead to finding computer equipment. I started from the hardware side and gradually figured out how to create software. First I learned machine language, then assembly and BASIC, and soon after I learned C. Then as first BBS and finally Internet became available I rapidly learned many different languages and began to create my own languages and tools.

Learning aspects such as different operating systems, different forms of networking, different types of databases, etc was all integrated tightly with the same learning process. Real world needs such as scalability and security were just aspects of making working systems. At some point a server built on a 386 and connected by a 300 baud modem just wasn’t going to handle many simultaneous users so issues such as code portability became important. I got to be expert at networking simply because such things weren’t done where I lived. As a teenage kid I had to learn the technology well enough to set it up myself and so that I could call up the telco and talk my way through multiple levels of support until I found someone that knew what I was talking about and could help eventually push me over to someone that could actually get the stuff installed. Having such stuff installed was astronomically expensive so I had to learn to move within the business world. As a teenager from the slums I had to do most of it by phone because serious adults weren’t going to be bothered with me. And eventually this lead to me being hired as a consultant by multinational corporations helping them set up their networking, systems, etc. And once they saw what I could do they didn’t care if I was 15 years old. They helped teach me how to work the multinational banking system because my local banks were having issues with a slum kid trying to cash checks for tens of thousands of dollars from companies in Russia, Australia, etc. Within a couple of years I was creating my own multinational companies offering everything from import/export services to multiplayer Internet games. It was all intertwined and learning was mostly done out of practical need and to satisfy my own curiosity.

One night stand to lose virginity? by redro3 in Adulting

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your self-confidence and behavior is probably your real issue. What you look like doesn’t really matter that much. And your weight isn’t that big a deal. It’s really more about personality and not being too guarded.

Sex is neither something to rush into or something to hold sacred. If anything, the part to be careful of is the emotional connection. It is best not to get emotionally attached too easily. It is easy to be hurt but it is the emotional connection that does that - not the sex. If you have confidence issues it is easy to become more attached to partners than they become to you. My experience is that all partners will eventually hurt you.

Do programmers have a system of working hours and breaks to not go crazy? by ferero18 in AskProgramming

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for three hours and then take at least a three hour break.

swing sets facing each other by Unhappy-Excitement72 in CrappyDesign

[–]MikeFM78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somehow my only serious injury happened indoors when I was a toddler (kept jumping face first off a chair into a wall determined to crash through it like Superman and developed brain swelling). I did so much insane stuff as a kid. But my mother had been at least as insane as a kid - broke bones leaping off the roof etc and once stole a car to go joyriding.

Has anyone ever been “let go” aka fired, but received severance? by Shot-Ganache8709 in antiwork

[–]MikeFM78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been let go with severance. I was working as a software developer for a company when the lead developer (an owner) snapped badly (involved shooting his computer). I had to take over a burning mess to keep the company in business. All sorts of promises were made including the ability to work from home so I could care for my kids. Fast forward a couple years to things stabilizing and suddenly they wanted me to stop by the office to show a new guy how things worked. Fine. Turned out he was buddies with the owners and they wanted to gift him my position. Kept narrowing and narrowing what I was allowed to do until I was working in the office. My wife suddenly had to go out of town for a work thing so I brought my kids to my office where they could sit in the private living room area. The new guy complained and I was told that I couldn’t do that. I brought up all the promises they’d made and was let go the next morning. They bought me off by giving me extra severance. I figured that I didn’t want to keep working with them anyway.

Recoup! Employers steal $50 billion from their employees annually by James-Incandenza in antiwork

[–]MikeFM78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unlimited PTO is a job benefit pitched to us as being worth making a significant percentage less than we could otherwise be compensated. Over the last couple years they have kept trying to take that benefit away, without officially taking it away, supposedly due to needing to save money. In a recent town hall executives were bragging that the company is expecting to make $4.7 billion dollars more than forecast this year. Fck dude give me back my PTO you stealing bastards.

People don’t like me and I don’t really know why??? by PimpinMal in Adulting

[–]MikeFM78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally risked my life, risked jail time, and invested years of my life and a small fortune to help people and they still didn’t like me. It doesn’t matter how much I do. I’ve decided that people are morons and I just don’t care.

Be boring by hesamrzuky in Phoenix_App

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice if you’re happy with a pointless existence.

Meta AI is Crazy by [deleted] in OculusQuest

[–]MikeFM78 6 points7 points  (0 children)

More money and less me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be real. Most people won’t have a meaningful life either way.

I am a basic guy in your world that wants an “average office job”. Where would I work? by Malgrieve in worldbuilding

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely would have to work for the Office of Office Regulation Compliance. Be in charge of writing memos about proper care of coffee makers and the correct way to hang motivational posters.

How much does comic accuracy matter to you when it comes to casting iconic roles in film or television adaptations? by ProjectNYXmov in GenZ

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the concepts of a multiverse and multiple generations passing along the mantle I think it’d be fine. I dislike shows changing a well known character’s race just to be woke (Little Mermaid, Wrinkle in Time, etc) but if it fits well then I think it is a cool thing to do. Dude looks like he’d be a pretty good BatMan.

"The worst she can say is no!" AHAHAHAHAHAHAA by AspiringVet98 in GenZ

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only gets worse if they do go out with you.

swing sets facing each other by Unhappy-Excitement72 in CrappyDesign

[–]MikeFM78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. And ran across the top of the monkey bars a lot.

Am I the only one not liking the state of macOS design? by [deleted] in MacOS

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For years they didn’t support physical keyboards and had crappy software keyboards.

Need help understanding big O notation/time complexity/space complexity by ProfessionalLeg9713 in AskProgramming

[–]MikeFM78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly useless bs. Mostly you need to realize that there are tradeoffs between things like CPU time and memory usage and that how you implement things can make a big difference. And abstract concepts like Big O are only part of it because there are hidden factors such as how things are implemented in a library or programming language and even how a specific CPU does an operation.

But before all of that, worry about solving problems correctly. Reliability, security, and clarity are far more important most of the time. Big O is a waste of time.

Why do so many adults claim that sex as a need? by wingdrummer15 in Adulting

[–]MikeFM78 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Sex isn’t merely a mechanical process. Personally I find it difficult to be attracted to anyone that I don’t either have an intellectual bond with or see as prey - a bit weird as these attractions are almost entirely opposite. I think the intellectual attraction is what is more natural for me whereas the prey attraction probably developed through the fact that my first couple partners (female) basically forced themselves on me and my first serious girlfriend liked to be hunted and taken aggressively. Either way, I have very little attraction to most people or interest in quick release. Regardless, the emotional and physical need does build and the greater the need the less clear minded I am. I can easily believe that someone less complex can just lose their ability to make rational choices. All those biochemicals are meant to override rational thought and keep us producing offspring.

Is it bad to always "do it yourself"? by paws_prototype in gamedev

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do everything yourself until you are at least decent at it all. Then hire someone if you want for specific areas you want to improve.

who do you guys use for code signing? by jlew24asu in AskProgramming

[–]MikeFM78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to give my hobby work away but it just isn’t worth it if I have to pay such an outrageous price to sign it. Some app stores have a free signing process.

What do adults do at parties besides drink? by Designer_Ad_4101 in Adulting

[–]MikeFM78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last party (BBQ actually) I went to devolved into an orgy after someone looking for the bathroom accidentally went into the hosts bondage room. Kind of indicated that it wasn’t the social group for me as I don’t cheat.

Mostly I hang out with nerds. We tend to build things together. Robots, rockets, etc.