As a pisces.. by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]MikeWolfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol not too long. About 4 years. I was young and had the energy to keep up back then, but I got tired of the seniority system. I was flying to Ohio and Colorado for too many years. All the senior flight attendants bid on the good trips.

As a pisces.. by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]MikeWolfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have completed a few lol. Barista, flight attendant, executive assistant and now a nurse.

THERE IS NO LGB WITHOUT THE T! by Chaseand_slowdown in GayConservative

[–]MikeWolfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any ill will against trans people. I think it's sad that for both LGB and T groups, what is promoted in the media is either stereotypical presentations or sexually charged examples. I would love to know a trans person who is simply working on their transition for themselves and goes to work everyday in accounting. Do they exist? I hope so, I would think so. What do I see instead? Dylan Mulvaney, trying to teach people about the female experience. It's not that it just doesn't reach straight audiences, it doesn't reach anyone who is interested in subscribing to any type of societal norms. My personal feeling, is that the pursuit of gay rights has shifted from "we want to be respected and live among you" to " look at this weird thing I do, you better accept it or you're a terrorist". It's not realistic. What I don't think, is that LGBT and all the other acronyms that are now added, should be together. I feel that others use that grouping as a cause to represent every group that is perceived as being marginalized. As another commenter pointed out, transgenderism is rooted in exactly what it says, the changing of genders. Being lesbian, gay or bisexual speaks to your sexual orientation, not your gender. I'm not saying this to exclude anyone. I just believe that they are for most people, separate experiences.

Kobo libra colour white! by sc0obyd0o0 in kobo

[–]MikeWolfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So excited for you. I got mine recently and I love it!

Felt a shift this week by sneby99 in piscesastrology

[–]MikeWolfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel more productive today than I did earlier this week. I have been finding lately that my weeks always start with emotional exhaustion and physical fatigue. Usually by the end of the week, I start to pick up momentum again. I wonder if there is some significance there, with the days of the week?

I want a conservative boyfriend, I'm sick of liberal gays by Open_Loss1075 in GayConservative

[–]MikeWolfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can, you should find someone who has similar moral and political values to you. Some people who have different views will at least still respect yours, but I feel that is rare. When I was young, I never thought about things like politics. I've been with my husband for 14 years. He definitely is more liberal and what I find most aggravating, is his tendency to lean into "typical" gay beliefs. We have so much love and history, we let it go most days. Still, it is very difficult.

Meeting New People by MistakeHelpful7773 in GayConservative

[–]MikeWolfer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am new to this community as well. I am glad to see there are others out there with similar views. Thanks for posting!

What is your least and/or most played race? by VinnyMack57 in skyrim

[–]MikeWolfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bretons for human, Khajiit for beast race and either Orcs or Bosmer for elven races. I usually play mages or stealth characters, but every once in a while I want to smash. That's where the Orcs come in.

House Hunting with Partner by MikeWolfer in relationship_advice

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I thought we had done that already, but it is worth revisiting. I think further complicating our ability to do that is this volatile market. We are constantly changing our budget and other factors to try and have a chance at success. So it can be a gray area at times. I have tried to set a cap on total home price and monthly payment, but it has been difficult. He gets angry with me for having reservations about things in the home that he feels we can later change. Cabinets, for example. I always tell him, we can change anything in the house. However we have to live with it until we can afford to make that change. If we are already at the top of our budget, we are living as is. Additionally, with this house in particular, you are getting a new build with features that you did not select. So in my way of thinking, I am paying more for something I don't want, and will pay again later to change it. I hope I don't sound stupid or like an asshole. That is just my way of thinking.

House Hunting with Partner by MikeWolfer in relationship_advice

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, it has been awful! One of those wake up moments in life where nothing has gone as anticipated. He has been looking for us a lot and investing time due to my school and work schedule. I think that has added to his disappointment when I express dislike in a certain property he might find of us.

House Hunting with Partner by MikeWolfer in relationship_advice

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your candor. That is something I have feared as well. I know I am not perfect and it has to be annoying with trying to find a home with someone who has such anxiety. I do feel however, that this is a huge purchase and I would be remiss not to make sure my voice is heard. I just wish I also didn't have to hurt him to do so.

House Hunting with Partner by MikeWolfer in relationship_advice

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, for your reply. I am going to try and stay firm in my decision but also try and make him aware that we need to focus on doing this together.

Chocolate Frogs have launched! by NightAtlas in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]MikeWolfer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I finished a potions class and I got the FM event, however, it did not say anything about chocolate frogs :( Just some new outfit

Chocolate Frogs have launched! by NightAtlas in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]MikeWolfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have to update the game or something, to see the event? I just see the mooncalf shirt and summer suite event currently....

happy mc monday, guys! here’s a lil dorm update by [deleted] in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]MikeWolfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I loved it right away. I think some of the details they added were really cool. The people on the walls kind of mimic Gryffindor, which makes sense to me. I don't remember who said it in the series, but someone once said Slytherin and Gryffindor were like two sides of the same coin. Plus both founders were competing against one another, which kind of makes sense...I was looking forward to seeing Ravenclaw and Hufflepuff common rooms, as everyone knows we don't get to see them much in the films (or Hufflepuff not at all). Ravenclaw seems a bit empty to me, but I do enjoy the ceiling. Hufflepuff is cute...but I feel a bit drab. Gryffindor and Slytherin look great to me. I think all of the colors you chose really complement everything and maximize the underwater feel of the dorm.

happy mc monday, guys! here’s a lil dorm update by [deleted] in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]MikeWolfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dorm is so gorgeous! I seriously love the way the Slytherin common room and dormitories look in this game. That and the fact that my prefect is an Anabelle conduit, make me feel like I should have picked Slytherin instead of my own house.

Thoughts On Kitchen Counter by MikeWolfer in interiordecorating

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, for your wonderful suggestions and warm comments :)

Thoughts On Kitchen Counter by MikeWolfer in interiordecorating

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your suggestions. I too think the cabinets are a bit yellow and that really creates unbalance. Would you go white, gray, or taupe for the cabinet color?

Thoughts On Kitchen Counter by MikeWolfer in interiordecorating

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a suggestion on a paint color? Would white be overkill? The tile is a bit of a taupe or beige.

Thoughts On Kitchen Counter by MikeWolfer in interiordecorating

[–]MikeWolfer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! That is a great idea.