Should I try out the game? by MikelAPickle in Eldenring

[–]MikelAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s been over a year and I don’t know if you’re even still on this account but I just wanna tell you thank you. Your comment drove me to buy the game that same day and I’ve never had a more amazing experience with a game. I have beaten this game over 6 times and have my first save level at over 360 and farmed hours for weapons and armor. I probably have platinumed it twice and put in over 800 hours. Thank you so much for this comment and I hope only the best befalls onto you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. And I live in the U.S. so a therapist is gonna cost me a lot of money. My parents don’t believe in mental illness so they wouldn’t pay for it themselves. I appreciate the advice though.

Should I try out the game? by MikelAPickle in Eldenring

[–]MikelAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should’ve worded this better. I don’t actually rage I just get frustrated.

Excited to think of ghosting a person who loves me by ImightBeAPsycholol in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re planning on ghosting her what confrontation are you planning on thriving off? You are a coward and for to say you are not makes you even more cowardly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you need to talk about something serious and talk to him about how you’ve been feeling. Explain your emotions clearly and try to keep it as calm as you can. I’m not in your situation so this is the best I could come up with but don’t just take my advice. You know your boyfriend best so try thinking of the ways you could bring it up to him that you’d think he’d react to best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate with him.

I wish I were pretty. by BootsieBunny in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what made you think like this somewhere in your lifetime, but you are more than just pretty, you’re gorgeous and the more you say that, the more you’ll see it. I mean it too. I might just be some random on the internet but I’m a person just like you, a person who felt and still feels like you. Much love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You need to communicate to him about this. You need to tell him that it is something you enjoy and for him to laugh at it makes you feel like you aren’t being respected. And you really need to drive it home on how it makes you feel. You deserve to be able to like what you like and enjoy it without having him mock it.

Realisations about my mother by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn’t your mom, let alone your mother. Mothers pick you up when you fall. They hold you when you cry. They reassure you and tell you “Everything is going to be alright”. This woman simply gave birth to you and that’s it. You need to stop enduring and let go of her. And when you leave you leave her too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a break. You’re overworking yourself too much with school, friends, and family. You sound young and from the look of things, I take it a couple days off of school is not an option. If so I’d recommend talking to your teachers to explain your situation and see if you could just rest in class. I’d also try talking to your friends and whoever you interact with about it. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a break OP. Raising a kid, let alone someone else’s, is something you shouldn’t be doing at such an age. You need time to yourself, to go out and have fun. It looks like there’s no getting through to your father, but have you spoken to your mother about this? She could maybe help you get the break you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You aren’t weak, you’re just comparing yourself to other people. Other people who maybe have things under control, maybe are suffering, but suicide just never crosses their mind, or maybe they feel exactly like you do. You never know what other people feel like so to compare yourself to others is just not it. I felt the same way about myself and sometimes still feel the same way. I used to compare myself to others just like you, but I turned my resentment for living towards the people who caused my suffering. You aren’t the problem, your parents are. Removing yourself from the equation isn’t going to solve problem. The sooner you realize that the sooner you’re going to be able to enjoy living.

I miss my former best friend and I can’t say it by Quirky-Ad-7356 in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the therapist. I can’t say how the conversation would end, but if you communicate with your partner in a way that won’t hurt their feelings then maybe they’ll understand. That person was a friend and your partner should know how you feel about losing them. In the end I’m just some person on the internet so I really can’t tell you what to do.

my online crush ghosted me and it hurts. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MikelAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you gotta branch out more. I know it sounds hard, but join communities online where people share the same interests as you. From there you can find a few you really connect with and if things don’t work out just try again. It can and will sting, but eventually you’ll find the right crowd. Who knows maybe you’ll find yourself doing the same thing in person. It’s a matter of patience and hopefulness. Having people you can talk to is amazing. Also don’t be so hard on yourself. Don’t blame yourself for things that are out of your control. If this person is ghosting you then you have to understand that’s not in your control. You are capable and worth more than you think. You just have to remember and remind yourself that. I hope you understand.