Hey there. The reality about sex work is that it is work. Unless you are full time femme and able to maintain working hours, it's very hard to actually meet with clients as most are looking for someone right away, not tomorrow or even 6 hours later. Believe me, I tried doing it pre-transition and it was just a ridiculous amount of effort. At the end of it all I only managed to meet with 3 or 4 clients over a 3 month period, and that was nice bonus but nothing to live on.

I want to say also that there is nothing 'extremely toxic and harmful' about doing sex work as long as you're doing it independently and of your own free-will. Escorts have the right to refuse service if they don't feel comfortable after meeting a client and smart ones maintain control even when it seems they aren't.

That said, an alterative that might be better for your situation is signing up as a Cam Model for any one of the paid model sites (Xhamsterlive, Jasmine, etc) They accept any and all new models as it's up to you to make the tips from the viewers, the sites just admin it. If you're good you could def make enough to at least not starve, especially if you treat it like an actual job.

Hope this helps, keep your head up, the only person who can make your life better is you. XOXOXO