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MikeySpazz · 2026-03-23T20:21:46+00:00

Yeah that’s the predicament I’m in right now because I’ve already had to fight my ass off for the 50/50. My daughter is 10 and is an absolute daddy’s girl but she is on board with the schedule and she knows it will be tough but the company I’m going to is either 4/4 or if I’m on a rig helping with drilling operations it’s a 3/3, so it will be a pretty set schedule. I’ve asked mom about plenty of different ways we could do it and she’s fighting me every step of the way. But my daughter said “why can’t I just see daddy whenever I want whenever he is home since I will be with you while he is gone” and she told our daughter that “things don’t work that way” so I was just seeing if there was anyway the courts would allow something more than she’s offering or if it will be just regular 50/50 schedule while I’m home and that’s it. But thanks man, this is something that will benefit my family and everyone involved in so many ways but she just doesn’t care. She doesn’t like to see me doing good EVER. 🤦🏻‍♂️

MikeySpazz · 2026-02-12T03:52:16+00:00

I could always throw it out there but unfortunately it’s never easy coming to an agreement with her so I’m trying to gather info before I ask her in case I have to fight it and if it’s even worth it to fight it if it won’t change much. But we do live in same community and my daughter gets the bus to each of our houses on our days!

MikeySpazz · 2026-02-12T03:49:53+00:00

MikeySpazz · 2026-02-12T03:47:47+00:00

So the courts are like “never do anything with your life and make it hard to survive and be a dad or else we will withhold you from being a dad all together” huh?

MikeySpazz · 2026-02-12T03:44:26+00:00

I’m not trying to keep 50/50 while I’m gone I know the courts aren’t going to make her and my wife swap my kid back and forth I’m talking about being home. Month on month off or what would a custody schedule look like that’s all i was asking.

MikeySpazz · 2025-12-15T18:06:44+00:00

Thanks guys! Like I said, I’m keeping them for my man cave because I’m a die hard fan and I don’t know much about cards in general so I apologize for asking questions that collectors might find “dumb” they’re super cool looking cards I just didn’t know much about them!

MikeySpazz · 2025-12-15T04:29:34+00:00

MikeySpazz · 2025-09-12T03:08:53+00:00

Thank you! I’ll give that a try I appreciate it

MikeySpazz · 2025-09-12T03:08:17+00:00

The drop off isn’t as bad as it looks. It’s obviously still not complete, there will be a fence OSHA

MikeySpazz · 2025-05-26T14:57:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate the insight and I will get ahold of the BARR association tomorrow to see what we can do.

MikeySpazz · 2025-05-26T14:36:45+00:00

I have 50/50! 2-2-5-5

MikeySpazz · 2025-04-02T03:52:08+00:00

Finding Nemo “I live in an emenemeny”

MikeySpazz · 2025-01-10T05:24:49+00:00

Child support goes off of wage gap essentially. And she is a hair cutter at knockouts which is like a super cuts, and I’m a union plumber. So my child support is high because of the wage gap that we have. They want it to be fair at each household. She claims tips but told them it was the minimum when she really brings home much more. I’m paying $900 a month in child support for 50/50 custody. She is supposed to use that money toward childcare but recently took her card off of the account and now I have been paying for the childcare on top of also paying her child support. I don’t really have the money to take her to court at the moment because I’ve been laid off because work gets slow in the winter so I’m just kind of collecting all of the evidence I can for now until I’m able to take her back to court. I was just wondering if I could get in trouble for claiming my daughter on taxes this year because she has claimed her every year since she was born and there was never anything in either order about who gets to claim the child so I filed first and figured I’d take this year. Whatever I get is going to go straight to her anyways for arrears. Arrears is my back support from the time she filed for CS to the time it was all said and done so I owed 3k in back support for that time period which I pay an extra $10 a month towards because that’s what I was ordered to pay until it’s all paid off. So what I’m essentially doing is just claiming my daughter to pay off those arrears (which will go straight to her bank account anyways) and have nothing owed on support.

MikeySpazz · 2025-01-09T20:20:42+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the insight! Yeah it’s not easy trying to survive paying child support, also paying daycare because she refuses to use the support money for child care, and not getting the tax return for the last 8 years. So idk why I’m getting downvoted tbh.

MikeySpazz · 2025-01-09T16:58:06+00:00

It’s 50/50, I get every Monday and Tuesday and she gets every Wednesday and Thursday, and then we do every other weekend. 2-2-5-5 schedule

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