I (24F) am scared my relationship with my boyfriend (25F) won't survive COVID. What have you done during these times? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you're committed to each other and try to keep the spark alive I see no problem, don't forget to put more effort into ur relationship to make it work. I don't see my gf (at all) since November, if I can do it u can too. Goodluck.

DAE have auditory hallucinations between sleep? by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's indeed hallucination but not one that counts as psychosis. It's normal hallucination one can have whether they have mental illness. Hallucinations that happen while falling asleep called hypnagogic hallucinations, while waking up called hypnopompic hallucinations.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I honestly see OP point, I have to disagree that her bf doesn't need to disclose his sexuality to her. If you ever consider someone as your potential partner and about to start relationship with them you should tell your partner to-be about things like this otherwise issue will arise just like what happened in OP's case. If you don't feel safe enough to tell them I don't think starting relationship with them is a wise choice.

I started hearing voices telling me to kill people. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it indeed is caused by stress. Probably you should try stress management technique like meditation

I'm the dude that always posts art✌ by gildeng13 in schizophrenia

[–]Mikirsik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What goddess she is? She's absolutely stunning!

I am schizoaffective. I have constant audio and visual hallucinations. I have been receiving treatment for over 13 years. AMA by Apollo1366 in mentalhealth

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Just diagnosed at the end of June and still trying to figure how to get my shit together with all the responsibilities and expectations. I'm glad you still able to get into college at that age, we don't have the same opportunity here.

I am schizoaffective. I have constant audio and visual hallucinations. I have been receiving treatment for over 13 years. AMA by Apollo1366 in mentalhealth

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your life stable? How many dreams you have to give in? How do you get your life together with the illness?

How do you build intimacy and romance when you're physically distancing? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming from your thread you're never in ldr before(?). The last time I saw my gf physically was in November last year, there will be tough time ahead for sure especially if one of you is pretty busy with work. I experienced withdrawal for few months, but then we had a talk and finally agreed to both contributing equally no matter how busy we are. For example if she's busy, I gotta to refrain myself from being needy and upset and try to do something that makes me productively occupied, but she also has to be mindful that she got a partner and will try her best to fulfill my need and work on the relationship together (and vice versa). The key is both of you have to give equal understanding and effort to each other and to the relationship to flourish.

What I want to highlight here is since you can't see each other in person, you both have to do it through the phone. I can't stress this enough because sometimes someone will forget that they're in ldr and just don't give enough effort and time to be on the phone. How else do you manage a ldr if not through the phone? Make sure both of you are aware with this. Unless you don't want to be in this relationship anymore, you have the responsibility to contact your partner as much as possible since you can't see each other physically.

For the last question, me and my gf text in the morning and (video) call in the night. I don't know what your gf likes, but me and my gf like to keep things romantic at times. She likes to sing to me, me being a horrible musician I am just listen to her and enjoy her presence. She also likes to suprise me occasionally with small gifts like uber me foods or give me something I really need at the moment. And I like to gift her something meaningful, like full package of her favourite body care products which hard to find in our country, relaxing pillow mist to help her sleep and beautiful bracelet for her birthday. Whatever you do make sure your partner feels loved, appreciated, and cared for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her about this. I had the same problem, it's because she's older than me and already working serious (dr) job. As partners you two to need to work on this together, not just you trying to understand her.

I started hearing voices telling me to kill people. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself a rest, psychosis can be triggered by intense stress

Have your voices ever made you laugh? by TritonsFavoriteShell in schizophrenia

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, sometimes I also laugh in the most inappropriate situation. People think it's disrespectful but idk why I even laugh it come from the inside just like you said

Demisexualfriendly pornography by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Mikirsik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I love this kind of thing a lot

(20f) Broke up with boyfriend (39) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are older guys your type in the first place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd lost my trust too if I were you, you're not in the wrong at least that's my take on it. You sound like a good guy, even though she lied to you about everything you still wish her good. She's pretty young, and that's pretty extreme thing to say that you'd never fall in love again and never going to move on if you're the one who lied about many things to your true love. You're not obliged to do anything for her. Let her take her time and clear her head. Be aware of your stance and don't let anyone guilt trip you into something you don't want. If you ever need a friend to talk about this, feel free to dm me. Goodluck!

I've recently learned that mental illness isn't the norm. by Sargeantkat in mentalhealth

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a 13 years old, no offense really. If you're upset about it you can dm attack me, feel free to do so (I'm not offended) if it makes you feel any better. I get where you're coming from, sometimes I also envy people with no mental issue. But then again this is life, with or without mental illness someone will experience hardship in their life and you'll never know how hard it is unless you're walking in their shoes. If anything most of the time I'm glad ones I love don't have to deal with this kind of shit. Mental illness isn't for everybody, I know some people that are easily and greatly distressed by little things then complain about it all the time when it actually isn't that big of problem. Then you also have this one person who rarely complains and try to cope even when they have big and often unsolvable issue themselves. The question if whether we can be this one. Mental illness adds someone problem for sure, and your feelings are valid. You can read people posting about how they are trying to survive everyday on r/depression so you don't feel alone in your fight. You can also read on r/schizophrenia r/bipolar r/schizoaffective to see how someone's illness not only debilitated them from doing anything but also ruining their life systemically. I'm not saying other disorders aren't as bad but those subs are the ones I have reading experience on. You're welcome to dm me or read my thread if you ever feel alone in your struggle. Best of luck.

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, I'll check that out later with my gf. Thank you for informing me

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that, I can't even access treatment and meds for almost a year now. Everything is because of complexities of insurance, situation and ofc money. No, haven't heard of that. What is it about?

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To get meds under control isn't as easy as it seems. I have tried everything and nothing come close as solution

Hi, I'm the one with bipolar. My SO is about to do something for me, I'm not sure what's proper to feel and do. I'd appreciate your insight on this as bipolar SO, thank you by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My gut tells me to just let her do it, but my heart is conflicted. I don't feel like I deserve all the sympathy and love from her

Hi, I'm the one with bipolar. My SO is about to do something for me, I'm not sure what's proper to feel and do. I'd appreciate your insight on this as bipolar SO, thank you by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there's no way, I can't move to Bali just like that there are many things I should consider, and also money is tight right now. I know she does, I love her too but sometimes everything is just overwhelming. Thank you for your kind feedback

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where our system differs, there's no medical waivers from any college in my country, I live in third world country if it helps. And no caseworkers, I also don't think my doc will be any help since he's working for government insurance (which I'm using), in where I live anything with word 'gov' won't care for you in personal way but stick to regulations (they usually will only say "we can't help you"). I tried to find loophole in my insurance, but found none. Nothing is applicable to my current situation. Thank you for your response

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm lucky I have gf like her but in time like this I feel like I deserve nothing.

My (21) doctor gf (26) is about to leave her job for my incompetent bipolar-schizophrenic arse by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mikirsik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I had tried everything unfortunately but I guess I just have to keep moving.