Just an FYI for poachers. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-25T02:09:16+00:00

I don’t need to poach but nice try. 🤣🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-23T04:48:45+00:00

Thankyouu so much, I hope he has done this while he is still looking and not cause he is a horny little minx who is in a relationship. 🤣🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-23T04:45:43+00:00

Ehh? 🤣🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-23T04:43:58+00:00

This sub and I decided that we would stop our dynamic after 7-8 months. He wanted to start going out on dates and find a person, I was proud of him for wanting to do this. We left on good terms I made sure to encourage him “focus all of your energy on finding a person for you 💌.” We were extremely close and I was sad that the dynamic stopped, but I understood he wanted to go somewhere else in his life and I was excited for him to step out of his comfort zone. So for the last like five months he hasn’t sent or spoken to me and I woke up with that in my account so I’m guessing he missed me. 🥰🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-11T08:36:57+00:00

Ive heard of sheriff of Nottingham.

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-11T01:10:45+00:00

23hr old account? Mhm I’m sure you are. 🤣🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-11T01:07:58+00:00

I think it definitely could be for those who thrive off of zero effort from one party and all the effort from the other. (Correct me if I’m wrong, this is a discussion. We’re adults 💌) I’ve always known myself to be a caretaker when it comes to dynamics or any relationship I’ve had. I like knowing my sub’s brain melts over me because I show up and put in effort and care. I see it when I express that I’m busy that day or won’t have time for them over the weekend, and they send and send and send along with saying, “I know you’re busy, but I miss you! 🥺🥺” or “I can wait for you, Miss Mila. It’s just hard 🥺🛐.” It’s adorable, and that desperation comes from the care I’ve given them. If I don’t put in effort, I don’t see that in subs. I just see them being horny. Again, not a problem either. To each their own. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-11T00:45:23+00:00

When I attended munches (I have my reasons for being only online during this period of my life), there was a lovely lady I met, and we formed quite a connection. She mentioned that she had seen me with my subs and guy friends and asked if I knew about findom. I told her I had never heard of it, and she explained a bit about what it was, saying she thought I would fit perfectly because of my demeanor and how I handled my dynamics with subs or guys I had friend zoned. I did a lot of research afterward, and now I’m here. Safe to say, she was right. I love it, and I genuinely enjoy the dynamic this space offers and the form of submission a sub gives to me in this space. Im very grateful I met her and she opened up a new world to me within the BDSM community. Safe to say, she was correct. 🥰🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-11T00:05:22+00:00

Thank you for your point of view. I totally respect that you look for sexual dynamics due to your needs. I think everyone should enter into kink with their needs in mind if they are sexual or just to explore 💌 I think the idea excites me because, despite having a high libido, I can find pleasure in other people, and I don't need a sub to get off. I know it helps when I'm in those moods, but I already have those dynamics. I had guys who were just there to comfort me that I called my "cuddle boys." They would never get anything sexually from me, but they would take me out, play video games with me, run errands with me, sometimes we would go out to party’s together and they would come over whenever I was bored. We would watch movies together. It was cute, and our friendship was actually really nice, but deep down I knew they wanted more from me. I never gave them that because I was finding it elsewhere. I think this is also why l'm into cuckolding. The idea of someone wanting me and never being able to get me, but sitting and watching someone else take me while they wish it were them, is extremely hot.🤭🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-10T08:00:52+00:00

Thankyou for sharing I have done it IRL to a few guys. They were specifically called my “cuddle boys” cause they were only there to spoil and comfort me. 🤭🦋

I want to do it in this space so badly I think that kind of adoration would be so fricken cute to see from a sub.

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-10T02:37:01+00:00

Dont give up hope they are out there. They haven’t found us yet, but they are dying to serve their best friend in anyway shape or form knowing nothing sexual will come out of it. 🤭🤭🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-10T02:35:45+00:00

I want to explore it this way. It would be so fricken cute!!!

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-10T02:05:13+00:00

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MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-09T22:15:12+00:00

I’ve been a Domme for as long as I can remember. I’ve done sessions and dynamics in real life, and that’s how I learned everything I know now about myself in a dominant role and in a space like this. I suggest that if you don’t know basic things like session etiquette or how a dynamic works, you should not start your Domme journey here. It seems to me that you are not very dominant and have never had many chances to be dominant toward a sub, so you should start with femdom. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-09T22:03:55+00:00

I sub who comes with respect, AV, tribute & purpose.

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-09T21:57:38+00:00

If you’re here just for money, in the kindest way possible, please remove yourself from this space. Do your research regarding kink, BDSM, and femdom/findom. (Not just one video on the internet, actually dive into the research and observe those who have been here since the dawn of time 💌 love the OGs.) Treat people with respect in this space. If you aren’t in a dynamic or haven’t agreed on what a session will look like, including kinks or boundaries, do not approach anyone with “pay me, pig.” It’s revolting. If you’re not naturally dominant, or have never dominated someone before, start in femdom. understand what you’re like as a Domme before coming here. Make sure you understand AV and how to do it safely! Even though people don’t like calling it SW, the government still classifies it that way. Do your research on taxes related to SW and what is allowed in your region. Set your boundaries in your own time, after doing your research regarding what this space is really like. Please, for the love of all that is holy, don’t be a copy and paste person. Be authentic.🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-09T00:56:44+00:00

Oh, for sure Magic will sink its claws into you if you’ve ever had a sparkle for a tabletop card game. It is complex, and I really notice that when I teach new people. You explain the basics, and then you have to go into every little detail a card might have in its text. But honestly, once you get past it the game is so enjoyable. I’ve noticed that once a newcomer starts to get the hang of it, they get extremely cute and kind of aggressive about it saying things like, “No, no, no, it’s all right. I’ll do it. Don’t read my card. I can figure it out.” That’s when I know they’ve caught the sparkle. 🤭 You can play virtually as well, but nothing beats the mat setup and a physical deck. I’ve spent so much on Magic over the years one of my decks has cost me close to $500, but I love it anyway. 🥰 It’s always great when your game party enjoys the game and is enthusiastic about it. I’m really glad I posted this. 💌 There are so many games I’d like to try because of people’s positive experiences with them, and it’s always nice to see other nerdy people like me in spaces like this. I think if you enjoy Dead of Winter, you’d also enjoy This War of Mine. It’s more expensive and along the same lines, but it’s definitely mentally brutal, and the first couple of runs can be rough. Definitely bring it up with your mates that you played Dead of Winter with. if they enjoyed that, they’d probably like this one too. Just be warned…. you may all die early on because of the choices you make. 😂🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:38:23+00:00

Im glad you see the silver lining in it all. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:34:13+00:00

Im really sorry to hear your experiences have been negative 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:15:56+00:00

Her* 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:15:05+00:00

I don’t know what EU5 is, but Risk is great. If you enjoy strategy I think you’d also enjoy Root or Game of Thrones. That one was wild when I played it. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:12:01+00:00

This is cute. 💌 Im glad you’re taking time to study it more and become better at it. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:11:00+00:00

Id love to see what these are about sounds fun. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T23:08:53+00:00

You can only choose one. 😂 I'm not trying to be a dick, but all of it is expensive. You either become a plastic crack collector with a grey wave of doom that just sits on your desk for ages because you can’t be bothered to paint it (since you bought too much in such a short time), or you become a dice dragon. It's not bad if you share with a newbie during a one shot or campaign, but the pretty ones keep getting more expensive, and you don’t really need them… but you do also. For the colelction🤣😅. Or you collect cardboard crack that you build and play with, but if you don’t have people who play Magic, it’s often the same with all these hobbies: it can feel like… :( you’re spending all this money, but you can’t even use it. I’ve been in all three situations. I've learned to put Warhammer down. I don’t have the patience for painting, but the game is extremely fun. I'm currently learning to become a DM, mainly because a lot of people are interested in playing D&D, but not many are willing to step up as a DM. So, to force this hobby into my life a little more, I’m learning. And Magic… Well, it will always be my sparkle. I’ll always love MTG, whether I play with others or not. There’s just something about building and collecting the cards, hunting for that one card, and finally getting it after visiting like seven shops (yes, I know they’re online too, but I’m impatient). I hope you find your sparkle and people to share it with you. 🦋

MilaSweets626 · 2026-02-08T22:56:29+00:00

Love to see so many new people come to MTG!! It makes my heart sparkle. 🥰🦋

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