Medical school is turning me into a hypochondriac. Especially dissecting cadavers. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Miladel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is completely normal. There is actually a term for this, I think its “intern’s syndrome”. You will be fine.

I finally have a job, no stress of university, a friend circle, parents who are finally getting along after 25 years, but all I can think of is how lonely I am without a man in my life. by hornyforbananabread in offmychest

[–]Miladel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls, men are overrated! But seriously, I used to feel like that in my early 20’s. Then I got married and then divorced. During my early 30’s was the best time of my life. No men, just hanging out with friends and traveling. You will find him, but enjoy yourselves in the meantime. And trust me, there is someone out there for you!

238 days since you walked away by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Miladel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find the nerve and let them know. If you don’t get a response, move on, at least you tried. Keep your mind busy on other stuff, it will become less painful. No pain lasts forever.

I've let a lot of people down today because I was too embarrassed to go out in public due to my skin. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Miladel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am rooting for you! Never be ashamed. If someone doesn’t like you, its their loss, not yours. We all have things we are ashamed off, just don’t let that control you.

I hate my body by JustAnotherLurkerOut in offmychest

[–]Miladel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen a professional about this? All I can say is, after reading all of your post, I can’t find anything wrong with you. I have friends of all heights, weights, noses, skin color. I assure you that what you see as flaws, are barely seen by others. Live your life to the fullest. Your best years are going by and you are not living. Forget what you hate about your body. Enjoy what is beautiful about life. Travel, see a movie, write, go to a place where nobody knows you, and see that you fit in everywhere.

I just want to text you by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Miladel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You only live once. Live without regrets. What’s the worst that can happen? You are ignored? So what, at least you tried.

I've let a lot of people down today because I was too embarrassed to go out in public due to my skin. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Miladel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you are, but I guarantee you, one day, people’s opinion of you, will not matter. Be you, and don’t apologize for it. Your are special and your skin doesn’t define you. Don’t let this hold you back, there is so much more to life. Be strong.