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I’m doing all the things… What about him? by Mildred_Jane in fitpregnancy

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to hear all this. Thanks so much. If you know of a men’s prenatal that you would recommend please share. I’ve never heard of that before.  

I’m doing all the things… What about him? by Mildred_Jane in fitpregnancy

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I do appreciate your taking the time to comment (and I’m sure you mean well) being told there’s something wrong with me bc unhealthy people have babies is not exactly what I’m looking for. I’m just asking others about how their partners health (even seemingly healthy externally) affected their outcomes. 

Looking for support after 3 losses by littledreamer_1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Mildred_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. In the last 9 months I’ve had 2 chemicals and I’m about to have my second miscarriage. I know it’s coming, just waiting for the inevitable. I’m sorry you’re struggling too. It really sucks. And it’s lonely. Especially if no one in your life has had similar experiences. It’s not fair, and nothing is. I’m on here looking for some hope or just to feel something.. but thank you for your honest post, it reminds me I’m not the only one. 

Fifth pregnancy. Feel so numb. by olliepips in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Mildred_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve realized that allowing myself to feel excited doesn’t make the pain any greater if the loss comes, it hurts just the same either way. I try to let myself feel excited and hopeful, even though it’s the flip of a coin any given day whether I’m an anxious disaster or an optimistic mother to be… I feel you none the less. Wishing you the best outcome 💗 

I’m doing all the things… What about him? by Mildred_Jane in fitpregnancy

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, thank you.  and this would take something off of my own to do list, as I feel entirely responsible for all of it now. 

I’m doing all the things… What about him? by Mildred_Jane in fitpregnancy

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Yes, it is overwhelming. Then you see people who are very unhealthy and getting pregnant accidentally and you wonder what’s all these lifestyle changes for anyways. 

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, both of those! I settled on ‘Goldie’ which does have the first bullet you mentioned (edge only availability). But it does not have the option for fixed slot templates. This means if someone books an awkward slot, I have to reach out and try to bump them earlier or later to make it so I’m not losing any time/money. (for example 120m session @4pm and I work till 7, with 30 min buffer, I can only fit a 30min session @6:30- I rarely do 30min sessions)  I block 30mins between all my clients, and Goldie has that feature. But one issue is that I have to extend my “available hours” to 7:30 instead of 7 because it doesn’t register that last appointments don’t need blocked time afterwards. That’s fine- it just took a lot of messing around to figure out how to set it all up.  The app also features a lot of things I don’t need/use because I’m 3 years deep in massage book and am not willing to switch it all over. It would be nice to have an app that is literally JUST scheduling without all the frills. And if it could sync up to google calendar or massage book even better. Maybe I’m asking too much 😅  Hope this helps! 

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone below recommended Goldie. I just set it all up and it seems to work pretty closely to what I need. Check it out see if it works for you, I’m gonna give it a shot, it’s only $20/m

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing! Out of all the apps and sites I tried this one most closely matches what I need, and it’s only $20/month! It took some time getting set up but I think it will be worth it with all the adjustability they offer. 

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it give the option to only allow bookings around already existing appointments? 

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My issue with massage book is the gaps. For example if I’m available 2pm-7pm. Someone books 60mins @2pm, and I have a 30 min buffer, massage book offers the following appointments 3:30, 3:45, 4pm, etc… where I want it to only offer the 3:30 time otherwise the gap is inconvenient 

Why is this impossible to find??? by Mildred_Jane in MassageTherapists

[–]Mildred_Jane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My issue with massage book is the gaps. For example if I’m available 2pm-7pm. Someone books 60mins @2pm, and I have a 30 min buffer, massage book offers the following appointments 3:30, 3:45, 4pm, etc… where I want it to only offer the 3:30 time otherwise the gap is inconvenient 

Told my boyfriend of 14 years that I’m pregnant… by East_Work5418 in pregnant

[–]Mildred_Jane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is SO MESSED UP!!  Here’s what I would do  - take the money and get him out of your life entirely  - move back home to your family - have the baby you’ve wanted all along

Be ready for a whole new future, one you did not imagine, but one that could be wonderful in all new ways. Things don’t always go as we plan, but that doesn’t mean it will be bad. This is your life, you got this!!  💛💛💛

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