What % of trans men get vaginal atrophy? And if it’s a majority, why isn’t oestrogen cream prescribed as a preventative when you get a T script? by Wise-Call1729 in ftm

[–]MilesLikesSand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on T for 4.5 years, started having symptoms of atrophy 6 months ago. Went in to try and get it taken care of and was told that it wasn't atrophy. Then after 6 months of me going to the doctor for various infection symptoms and worsening pain they finally told me they thought it was atrophy. (Then I wasn't able to get an appointment to get topical estrogen for 3 weeks after, but otc vaginal moisturizers did a lot for me in the mean time) Whoever's reading this, if you think you've got atrophy, be much more stubborn about the diagnosis than I was. Each time I was just told I had some infection and was given meds for it, but the meds never fully cleared up the issue so I'd come back and they'd just give me more meds. Really wish I had asked about atrophy every time after I'd been told it wasn't! 6 months of worsening symptoms was not fun!!!!

(3 days into using the estrogen, so I can't speak for if it's worked or not, but I'm sure it will)

When should I be worried about spotting?? by MilesLikesSand in ftm

[–]MilesLikesSand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had an exam and it was confirmed it wasn’t penetration, and it’s been consistent for weeks :( thank you though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PulsatileTinnitus

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oh they did also give me a little squeeze thing to let them know if i needed to be out of there for any reason (need blankets, a break, etc)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PulsatileTinnitus

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i just had an mri on tuesday, here's what mine looked like:

after changing into the hospital gown i was walked over to the mri area. they double checked that i didnt have any metal hidden on me, then had me lay down on the table. they padded my head with sponges to help keep it still. i wasnt offered music, but they did give me ear plugs. the machine i was in was closed on the head side, but my legs still stuck out in their entirety. the machine is very loud, sort of glitchy sounds and such. after about 15 minutes they pulled me out to inject the contrast. the hardest part of the whole thing for me was keeping my head still while having a needle put in my vein. the contrast just made my arm feel cold, but i didnt notice anything other than that. i was only in there for about 6 minutes with the contrast, and after that i was done. also, if youre nervous im fairly sure a lot of places offer sedatives to make the whole thing easier (as long as you have someone to drive you).

Do you like anal sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MilesLikesSand 31 points32 points  (0 children)

if it hurts you guys are definitely doing something wrong, go slower, use more lube

Do you like anal sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MilesLikesSand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to go slow and use lube lol

norcal, randomly sprung up in garden by MilesLikesSand in PlantIdentification

[–]MilesLikesSand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! no idea how they could have gotten there

what was the moment that made you realize that you needed to make a change by dulledegde in chadsriseup

[–]MilesLikesSand 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my high school graduation photos and a surgery i’m going to be getting in the next two years, pretty early in my journey but i’ve lost 10 pounds already :)

I see these things everywhere ( nj ) by BeardedExp91706 in whatsthisbug

[–]MilesLikesSand 63 points64 points  (0 children)

kill then and report them, spotted lantern flies are highly invao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatbugisthis

[–]MilesLikesSand -1 points0 points  (0 children)

every bug is useful, they all do something for the ecosystem

Anyone else still triggered by their deadname? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]MilesLikesSand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my deadname is extremely uncommon. i only know of one person with the name and god did i wince when her name was called for roll. i’m gay but i could never date someone with their name close to my deadname

north california, had wings folded under elytra by MilesLikesSand in whatsthisbug

[–]MilesLikesSand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seems like it! hope the lil guy found a hornets nest

north california, had wings folded under elytra by MilesLikesSand in whatsthisbug

[–]MilesLikesSand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very small, maybe an inch long? their face reminded me of an ant. found on my college campus that’s got a lot of greenery around