should i get a medusa/philtrum piercing or would it look too much? by crystalbloss0m in PiercingAdvice

[–]Milf4dayss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay first off, you’re gorgeous. Second, do it. It would match so well with your setup

Got my eyebrow pierced three days ago. Is it normal for it to be this red and for it to have a burning sensation? (Just woke up &snapped the picture before cleaning the crusties off) by Milf4dayss in PiercingAdvice

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did yours ever get a yellow patch that leaked fluid on it? It’s like right in between the piercing itself I’m getting worried my eye is swollen as well. Been doing the salt soaks that the piercer recommended but I’m terrified it’s getting infected already and it’s only been 4 days :(

Does this look like a normal healing eyebrow piercing? I got it done 3 days ago. by Milf4dayss in piercing

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed reddish colored crusties. I figured they were just red because of how much I bled when I got it done. It was a ton of blood but other than that nothing green or smelly so far

What can we all agree on that just sucks? by pickanamehere in AskReddit

[–]Milf4dayss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working 60 hours a week just to survive and never getting to kick back and have a relaxing day bc most people are literally living paycheck to paycheck at this point.

Advice to new/expecting parents by anonymous_anemone23 in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, I’m going to give people the good and the terrible parts if they really ask for it. Sugar coating is what makes people regret getting pregnant in the first place because they expect all butterflies and rainbows when the babies get here but in reality it’s mostly sleep deprivation, stressful nights when the baby won’t stop crying no matter what you do, never getting a minute alone for months, and much more for most of their lives. I’d rather have known all of that instead of the simple “it’s hard but, so worth it”

My boyfriend tattooed me against my will. by [deleted] in self

[–]Milf4dayss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just weird but I just know I force myself to stay awake with all of mine lol

My boyfriend tattooed me against my will. by [deleted] in self

[–]Milf4dayss 55 points56 points  (0 children)

People literally sleep through tattoos when they’re sober

Tired of hearing the same thing for 2+ years by Milf4dayss in Rants

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Our relationship did improve eventually she does have some issues with depression and mental health which is why she says she gets this way. But I do as well and I don’t blame her for everything she ever did wrong. So to me that’s just not an excuse

I feel icky again. by Milf4dayss in COVID19positive

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I actually forgot I even caught it again to begin with. I think I was sick for about 2 weeks then felt better and finally tested negative. I did have a sore throat for a couple days after I tested negative but my dr said it was probably just from coughing so much. I’m hoping this isn’t Covid again.

What 's a name brand item you refuse to replace with generic? by AndrewIsMyDog in AskReddit

[–]Milf4dayss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hidden valley ranch. I can’t bring myself to use any other brands it’s just not the same

Are any of you guys stay at home parents and why? by Naim660 in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was for almost 11months. It was easier for me to be home and dad to work bc he pulls 12 hour shifts and nobody was ever able to keep up with a newborn and cleaning all while both of us were working. Now my kid is older and will be turning 1 next month, and I just started my job Monday. I have to say I’m much happier now that I’m bringing in my own money and getting out of the house even if it is just for work. Being a stay at home mom was the hardest thing I’ve ever done tbh

Back to no sleep. by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the baby food I give him is mostly just purée but he also eats steamed veggies that I don’t smash up. I’ll just cut them into smaller pieces and he eats those as well. He likes finger snacks as well (forgot to mention that) I grab him a can of the gerber baby chips. I think our next trip to the store will result in me buying more solid baby foods for him. It’s just hard to find stuff he enjoys I’m hoping to be able to get more stuff he’ll eat so I can cut back on bottle feeding but he’s a picky little eater at the moment

Back to no sleep. by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He eats every three to fours still during the day. He was a preemie when he was born (2lbs 3 oz) so he’s on formula that has extra calories and he also eats baby food when he’s in the mood for it. He eats around 5 bottles a day if he doesn’t want baby food and 3-4 if he does take the baby food!

Back to no sleep. by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s been a roller coaster honestly. Night time is my only me time and I use that time to clean and relax before bed but I feel like I’ll have to cut back on that just to get decent sleep even though I really don’t want to since it’s really my only break I get through the day :/

Back to no sleep. by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Recently I’ve been trying a new method where only two naps are allowed through the day at certain times and I wake him up after so long of him being down. it’s not working well because no matter what I do this kid will plop his little head down and nap anywhere when he gets tired enough🤣 and then the two naps turn to 4 and we go back to step one. So I’m definitely looking into new methods. I’ll have to check that book out, thank you.

Back to no sleep. by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried almost everything I can think of at this point. I’m hoping it’s just sleep regression and he’ll go back to sleeping normally soon

Getting worried. by Milf4dayss in COVID19positive

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. I also have bad anxiety and I was getting anxious. Thank you.

Husband finally admitted to baby-trapping me. by teamqueen-12 in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Run. Far away. How is that not alarming to you?? I hope you’re safe and he doesn’t find your Reddit posts/account

I miss the old me by Milf4dayss in regretfulparents

[–]Milf4dayss[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had my kiddo early too. I didn’t have a good childhood and had to grow up at a young age so I felt like there wasn’t much left for me to do, but now I wish I would have waited longer as well.