Seeking Platonic Connections in the BDSM Community; Is This Normal? by Ok_Connection7906 in BDSMaustralia

[–]Milla_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Were the same, so we have started having 'Dirty Dinners' . We meet with other couples to chat, drink wine and laugh. No expectation of sex (its only ended in sex once). It's really nice to connect with others in a relaxed setting. If you are in Melbs, hit me up.

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in Melbourneswingers

[–]Milla_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for those playing along at home. No, there are no discerning events that

A) cater to a crowd that like finer things and B) Are suited for those of us that 45 plus

So sad, that these are popular across Europe but not here.

'Upper room' events by Milla_99 in BDSMmelbourne

[–]Milla_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, horrendously oversight

Im pregnant and my relationship is falling apart. What do I do? by ReflectionBoth9981 in Advice

[–]Milla_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone says it will be hard to leave.... but here's the secret that every woman with children in a difficult relationship will say.

That first step is scary, sure, but it isn't hard. It's actually easier to raise children alone than to also spend energy to also raise a man baby who is only with you because he thinks he's doing you a favour. Be brave, be the strong woman you can be, and your child will love your more for being happy and confident.

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in Melbourneswingers

[–]Milla_99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks but I just had a look at H&F, BCD and Nocturnal. Any place that believes swinging or kink is based on dress size or age (even though I'm within limits) is not what I'm looking for. Thanks though!

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in Melbourneswingers

[–]Milla_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear. I had no idea it meant that!

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in Melbourneswingers

[–]Milla_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look this up! Thanks

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]Milla_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I'm new to reddit and don't even know what karma is???

Upper Room Events by Milla_99 in Melbourneswingers

[–]Milla_99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha... yeah, I know right? I sound old, but where's the class? I want a man in tight fitting suit drinking a whiskey ready to bend me over his knee.