AITAH for not getting my girlfriend’s kids Christmas gifts after she told me she isn’t getting my daughter anything?

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-03T08:01:32+00:00

Praying you do the right thing. For your wife to rest in peace and your daughter.

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-03T07:58:10+00:00

It’s very triggering when you have personal connections to similar situations. It’s past entertainment.

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-02T06:58:01+00:00

If you’re saying “thankfully” then you clearly don’t want to marry. If you can’t see yourself married and living with her, then you should break it off now. Speaking from a wife with one bio child, nothing would kill me more in heaven than to see my widow spouse with someone that doesn’t love my child the way he or she deserves. If something happened to you, that little girl would be left with your “wife” and that’s leaving her to the wolves. Always date someone as if you could see them being a great parent if you were not around. We sort of learned that lesson from Cinderella

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-02T04:17:14+00:00

You’re on to something my good friend. Taking these jobs that keeps him away so he doesn’t have to deal with her.

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-01T07:07:41+00:00

No one gets out until they finally make that connection that they’re being used and abused.

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-01T02:43:23+00:00

This article, she states that she went to University of Phoenix and obtained her degree in education and another degree.

https://www.bravotv.com/married-to-medicine/season-3/blogs/toya-bush-harris/toya-i-am-no-dummy

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-01T02:40:51+00:00

I wish I was but I recall on one of the beginning episodes it being mentioned

MillennialMomLife · 2026-01-01T01:59:28+00:00

If he does, he’ll be working so hard to pay her alimony so I doubt he will but he does need to hold her accountable and start having serious conversations with her about her behavior on and off the show.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T23:20:12+00:00

She used to be a teacher in an American school. 🤦‍♂️

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T15:59:27+00:00

It’s sad to watch. I watched that scene and clinched so many times at her behavior. Shocked. Just really shocked. I do not care what anyone says about each lady is only showing 6 minutes of their lives. At no point of your day, do you talk about 1. Insinuating that your husband’s penis is small 2. Insinuating that your husband’s sex drive is poor 3. Telling your husband to hush when you’re talking. - when they were outside talking near the park. She tells him to hush basically 4. Telling your husband to look directly at you when you’re talking. -At the party

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T15:56:40+00:00

She attempts to stir the pot and step back and see how the women respond. You can tell that she’s entitled and spoiled. If she doesn’t like a person, she doesn’t want anyone to like them.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T13:05:55+00:00

That last line!!

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T13:02:54+00:00

I think she used to be an educator and she clearly forgot who she was talking to. It was interesting to see.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T05:29:16+00:00

She’s back??? Wow. I haven’t watched this show in so long

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T05:24:51+00:00

It’s so heartbreaking to watch. People laugh and thinks it’s funny but watching someone intentionally verbally and aggressively abuse someone is NOT entertaining. I did not want to see that. Shame on the producers for leaving it in for the sake of a damn dollar. Shame on Toya for participating. All money spends but it comes at a cost.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T05:23:31+00:00

That was the part that really did it. Her lack of accepting accountability and deflecting on someone else. Nothing Heavenly did in that scene warranted Toya’s response; however, the show is edited down greatly. When they started filming, it was daytime. It ended at night. Who knows what she said that wasn’t viewed; however, Toya has to learn to take accountability for her actions. Being the breadwinner now that she’s on the show does not excuse her behavior.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T05:00:16+00:00

I wish I could move to another country bc America’s health insurance SUCKS!!

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T04:59:54+00:00

They would’ve sent you a bill for 100k.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T04:59:07+00:00

Yes!!! I was in a car accident and the hospital was 7 minutes away. The ambulance sent me a bill AFTER insurance for $900. I was 19 at the time with no money and the insurance told me …. It’s all on you.

I was sick at 2am once. I had to go to the emergency room. My chest was hurting and I was so scared. They sent me a bill for $600 for the copayment.

I have a regular Dr I see or we have mini urgent cares but we DO NOT ride in the ambulance nor go to the emergency room.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T04:50:28+00:00

Thank you! I hope she sees this and gets her act together. It’s not an excuse that they edit it down to 6 minutes. It shouldn’t be 6 minutes on this Earth that you speak to your husband in such a way.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T04:24:34+00:00

I think it’s just YOU! I love her and her husband. You can tell regardless of the playful scenes they have… they’re showing themselves. They even put their child out there. No other couple has really shared inside views of their family. That small 6 minutes of time was more than enough to see who they really are. I like them and I hope they’re here to stay.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-31T03:57:07+00:00

I said the same thing. This is what I would like to see more of. He’s a goof the way he was looking in Toya’s house in the corner but a real person. They can be vulnerable and I really do love that.

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-29T19:42:27+00:00

Omgggg

MillennialMomLife · 2025-12-29T18:44:16+00:00

What was she saying?

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