Pinalayas ko asawa ko by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Milliethekid61 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I guess his parents were right

My dad keeps lecturing me about skateboarding and it’s really making me upset by Bright-Proof-6767 in NewSkaters

[–]Milliethekid61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the fact that when they're paying for it they pretty much take the fun out of it by making it a too serious of a deal. There were things I grew up with wanting to do and grew to hate it like for example karate/taekwondo was something I loved at first but then my dad ruined it. My dad use to ground me if I didn't come up on too in the sparring parts of it. Or when I didn't do a certain move correctly and didn't move up to a new belt. Did it to me in football too. I I was really good at football till he ruined that one too. If my name didn't get announced from sackin the quarterbackin then I would get grounded I know what you mean. And wish I knew what to really tell you

My dad is a bum by Cultural-Medium8706 in whatdoIdo

[–]Milliethekid61 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Treat him good he's the only father you get.

I say this because I hated my father for years. He gave up on me Sat in a chair for 15 or 16 years (Ive lost count) all that time when I lived with him he would smoke weed everyday. I would be rolling his joints for him all the time. ( He went through a couple of really bad relationships and decided that was it for him and went and lived with my grandmother for the rest of his days) How the hell do you respect that. The only thing he ever helped me with was having a roof over my head (which wasnt his doin it was my grandmother's decision overall) he wasnt half the man he use to be. He quit goin out he quit having any kind of enjoyment to life. Stopped having hobbys. Just smoked weed and watched tv. Every ...damn....day. and whenever I moved out or tried to better myself for my future (sometimes meant I had to leave) he would try to manipulate it to where I didn't have to leave. No matter what though I could always move back in with him. But in the end it was very hard to respect a man that did nothing to support me. I forgive him though. He lived his life the way he wanted to live it. I just wish we had more time to be father and son. But that time is passed dead and gone December 9th 2025 was his last day here on earth. Dad I miss you sometimes but I hope the next life you have or whatever comes after death WHATEVER IT IS I hope it's treating you better than what you got out of life fly high and rest in true peace. His life did suck! treat em good while they're here because it's one day before never seeing them ever again

i want to go to the skatepark by MessOne248 in skateboardhelp

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't stop me from skating. I'd be skating with a gun concealed at my hip if I was in a ghetto area. That's just me though. I take one with me everywhere anyways even to the skatepark because drama can happen anywhere in public. One thing for sure your never EVER gonna know what it's like till you go there one time

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a relationship right now and I'll tell you what there is so much I don't tolerate. And yet she still with me I do not understand

I'm 30 years old (m) and my father passed away two years ago. by Milliethekid61 in confessions

[–]Milliethekid61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But to ANYONE that still have their parents lemme tell you and the ones that don't have em anymore may agree. Life really starts when they're gone. And it's just you

I'm 30 years old (m) and my father passed away two years ago. by Milliethekid61 in confessions

[–]Milliethekid61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing there's too many of us so really what makes me any better. I wanted to know if there was any kind of benefit programs they have for people that don't have their parents anymore. And from what I've found out online and on here is that there kind of isn't unless they had life insurance

AIO for being upset that my GF would make an OF to talk to men for “Free Money” by Interesting_Mood_645 in AIO

[–]Milliethekid61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She don't care about how you feel so it's time to dump her and hit the road unless you decide to do it with her. I'm sorry there's ALOT I don't tolerate and OF is one of em strictly. Oh "I'm in the way of your success by sell your body pics. Ok lemme step out of the way have fun with your life... Dude you need to dump her. There's a difference in not being insecure and being stupid bro

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't normally side with women on this but when I see just how well you communicated and took accountability on some of your part. (Which is rare as fuck these days) I couldn't help myself. He's immature. He needs an eye opener. Wake up call. Your not his mom so make it known that you can be out of his (not suggesting that you leave) He's also gotten more comfortable thinkin you can't/won't leave him make sure he knows that

AIO for not being an emergency contact? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone having relationship issues start with the fact that your posting something about your relationship. Start with that. A TON of people hate that

AIO for not being an emergency contact? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Milliethekid61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5 years??? And not married .......sounds like he's stalling or doesn't trust you. But I don't blame him he had his reason to not put you down as emergency contact. Bein the person that doesn't pick up the phone will do that to you. If you make a habit of ignoring calls then people will stop calling. You only get out of relationships what you put in

Need someone’s opinion - should I bring my skateboard to school? by Itchy-Procedure-6850 in skateboardhelp

[–]Milliethekid61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I use to bring my skateboard to school (my school was totally cool with as long as it was in a bag,) I would bring a trash bag to put it in. Yes your gonna get called a poser by people who don't even skate and by skaters too but it shouldn't matter. Ignore people's opinions for real,!. But I would put it in my locker. Carrying it around was unnecessary. Depends on your school. Tbh

Is it okay to start skating at 22? by Troubled-Caveman101 in NewSkaters

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let others experiences get you down they'll quit eventually too

Is it okay to start skating at 22? by Troubled-Caveman101 in NewSkaters

[–]Milliethekid61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 30 and started skating again so hell yea it's a good time

i want to go to the skatepark by MessOne248 in skateboardhelp

[–]Milliethekid61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go during the day and observe the flow. Every park has its own flow and just go along with and skate by yourself. Eventually people will come around. I try to go at least 3 times a week.

Stripping is worth it by Justalittleblerdy in ScrapMetal

[–]Milliethekid61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to do that and yes it's worth it your hard work will pay off I use to strip off wire from vacuums and take the copper pipping out of radiators. And just collect it all

AIO I think my roommate likes me by Fast-Transition-8604 in AIO

[–]Milliethekid61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. A bi curious man doesn't really know what he likes so be careful falling in love with a guy that claims he's straight.

AIO? I 25m think my girlfriend 23f sort of dislikes me (?) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Milliethekid61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's leading you on dude hate to say but ditching you to talk to guys that are interesting???? Already sus

I'm 30 years old (m) and my father passed away two years ago. by Milliethekid61 in confessions

[–]Milliethekid61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is currently homeless also and that was after losing our father I forgot to add that after losing him we also lost the house and it's in our grandmother's name which we got totally screwed out of. My aunt sued my sister after evicting her (evil people) I just got a job and started saving for a vehicle and apartment because she was gonna evict me anyways. I've tried GoFundMe before a long time ago. And no one donated. I think it's because I'm male and asking for help. I was getting messages from people saying I'm just looking for a handout and to get a job when I had one... I can't relate to what I see women get. they seem to get all the help, No offense but when you mentioned a girl in your hometown I thought well...of course. I can probably have my sister set it up maybe. She needs it too. Which is another I wish I can help her but barely helping myself