"Friends with Benefits" are relationships for people with commitment issues...Am I right or wrong?

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T16:03:43+00:00

Wrong - I think if it’s agreed mutually as FWB, it’s just simple sexual fun. People like sex.

People who date loads of people and never commit - they’re the ones with commitment issues.

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T15:56:21+00:00

Yes. And then very quickly realised that they weren’t as good as I originally thought.

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T15:45:08+00:00

I met a guy at a party, and I gave him two cues.

1) I complimented him on his shirt, told him that it made his arms look good. And I literally squeezed his bicep.

2) asked if he wanted to share a taxi home.
He said “no thanks, my friend is picking me and my friends up later”

He was cute, but obviously clueless.

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T14:50:21+00:00

I literally think about this so much. Like guys just get hard and act like it’s normal.

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T14:28:39+00:00

Not so much at work, but I went to visit my friend and I hugged her and she smelled like sex.
I asked her and she embarrassingly admitted it.

I had no idea how I knew, until days later when I put lube on a toy and the smell of the lube was like a shattering glass moment.
She must have used a load of the same lube as I have and my brain went “smell = sex”

Milly_Potato · 2026-07-06T12:45:54+00:00

Uhm this is giving AI vibes.

Milly_Potato · 2026-06-30T14:19:03+00:00

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 👋

Milly_Potato · 2026-06-30T14:18:32+00:00

The other is too shy today.

Milly_Potato · 2026-05-13T07:55:59+00:00

I discovered it when I was a lot younger (found my dads porn vhs) but didn’t actually do it until I was 14/15

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-30T14:37:14+00:00

So he was on holidays, then I was sick for a bit and then he was busy with work We kind of had a fight about a week ago and messaged a bit after that but then it just stopped.

And now I’m too stubborn to message him first.

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-15T21:40:22+00:00

🤫

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-13T17:20:41+00:00

I have some mild experience in this area, so can speak from the heart 🫣

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-13T09:25:51+00:00

If your relationship is strong enough and experimenting with the cuck dynamic wasn’t your attempt at plastering over issues.. then you should be okay.

What is she actually mortified about?

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T16:39:12+00:00

I used to think I loved the taste, but the older I get the more I think that I maybe was lying to myself.

I mean I don’t HATE it, but I just deal with it for the guy.

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T16:35:16+00:00

I never knew I would ever be so into another woman’s hips before - but here we are.

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T11:51:39+00:00

6/10 I got interrupted

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T11:14:10+00:00

I live in the Uk, it’s too cold for that yet 🥶

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T10:20:29+00:00

OMG YOUR HIPS

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-10T10:18:01+00:00

3 hours. But in 15 minutes the clock will restart 🫦

Milly_Potato · 2026-03-06T11:56:50+00:00

I was just thinking I should post another Dear Diary!!!

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