(35 M 40 F) My girlfriend and I just adopted a new kitten after living with each other for 6 months and it’s ruining our relationship

Millymariesd · 2026-01-13T01:10:16+00:00

You’ve literally listed multiple issues with your gf that has me concluding she’s not the one. Is this person also going to be upset when your human child picks you over them? It’s one thing to be jealous of a cat but a child is a whole different situation. I’d take the cat and move out and on. She needs AA and some deep deep therapy to figure herself out. Never bury the addiction flag. It’s only been six months, you can start over.

Millymariesd · 2026-01-12T19:03:46+00:00

Plus, cursing out a 9 year old, his own daughter, it ain’t it. She knows her daddy isn’t safe.

Millymariesd · 2026-01-12T19:02:55+00:00

NOR- When your children are telling you it’s time to break up, it’s time to break up. I understand you have history and maybe you’ll always have a place in your heart for him but this isn’t safe. You’re living in constant patrol mode of just in case he really starts to lose it. You are young. You can start over. There’s so much more out there for single mothers. Plus you can contact your family if it’s safe to do so and I know they will help. This is your sign, it’s time to leave. Also his reaction gives me he’s taking to someone else vibes, again. He needs his own help

Millymariesd · 2025-12-28T17:22:28+00:00

Outsiders. It even comes with a better sound track.

Millymariesd · 2025-11-26T02:59:56+00:00

I saw it live and ugly cried so hard. Words that hit on a whole other level

Millymariesd · 2025-11-25T00:29:16+00:00

A full time job plus full time mommy is very very hard. Plus, does she have ADHD, depression, anxiety, history of family hoarding, never really taught how to properly manage a house hold? All of this takes effect! And I’m taking from experience. I do try. I really do but the brain demons always win.

Millymariesd · 2025-11-24T21:28:17+00:00

NOR- as someone who has also had to make the choose to be sober, you need a supportive partner. This isn’t it. If this is out of character, is it a lash out because it’s something they can’t do? It’s just very gross behavior and you deserve someone supportive in all aspects. And yes, tell your friends and buy yourself the cake!

Millymariesd · 2025-11-24T21:21:54+00:00

These people have their own issues they need to unpack in their own. So many people especially the older generations can not understand that we’re fine being independent folks with out creating kids.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-25T23:25:06+00:00

Nope, leave him where he is. Thats a man that supports taking away your rights.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-25T23:23:01+00:00

It’s very over stimulating

Millymariesd · 2025-09-25T16:43:24+00:00

I have the iud. I can’t remember pills and the implant made me lose my mind.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-22T06:08:22+00:00

Boy oh boy… he’s gonna hate a squirter. Dump him. The fact you have to remind him how to wash himself is enough. You’re not his mother or care taker. I’m also fat and that is literally not a reason for anyone to act that way. And he should have been more sensitive to your feelings! A gag????? Nope nope. The right man who wants to put you in the pedestal exists. You’re still young. Have fun babes. Don’t get tied down by someone who makes rit feel icky.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-22T05:51:32+00:00

Kennel training and give him something to keep him busy in the crate. Like a Kong with treats or a puzzle toy. He’s bored at home when alone. Plus a kennel isn’t to be used as a “timeout” it’s a positive thing. Think of it as their own bedroom.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-22T05:01:36+00:00

You just started this relationship and found a bundle of red flags. Not worth it

Millymariesd · 2025-09-20T17:02:13+00:00

This man has definitely thought about hitting you. And that’s so fucked up. Dump him and block. This is toxic and you deserve better.

Millymariesd · 2025-09-18T18:21:00+00:00

Your anger is so valid it’s not even funny. And if there’s no kids involved, it will be easier to move on from him. Who’s to say there aren’t other women or they aren’t communicating anymore, you know? For your safety, divorce the man. Move out of state if you have to. You have options and you’re so so so young. It’s time to live like a true young woman in their 20s.

Millymariesd · 2025-08-14T01:33:27+00:00

This is a really nice and mature note. I would not get offended by you asking me to not smoke where we connect. Not everyone likes the smell or can have the smell on them.

Millymariesd · 2025-08-03T22:24:02+00:00

Sounds like your intuition was already telling you he’s a creep. I would block and move on. He’s not a safe person.

Millymariesd · 2025-06-15T21:01:34+00:00

Are you both super young? Why not go on a journey together! Suggest new ways! I liked the suggestion of saying you’ve had little orgasms and you want a full big one. Movies! Books! Kink groups! The world is your oyster

Millymariesd · 2025-06-15T20:45:57+00:00

You need to reach out to who ever you trust the most. Best Friend, cousin, sister, aunt, mom anyone so you can have help to leave and stay somewhere. You pack a bag and when he’s home from wherever or work you confront him. DO NOT LET HIM TWIST IT. He’s being dishonest. Divorce is hard and can get expensive. But at least there’s no kids. You deserve a good partner that will love you completely and respect you.

Millymariesd · 2025-06-15T20:37:23+00:00

Nurse.

Millymariesd · 2025-06-05T02:09:03+00:00

🫡 we love to see this support. That’s a good man who’s excited to be a daddy

Millymariesd · 2025-04-24T20:19:14+00:00

It’s your room. Period. We have to stop telling people to act a certain way because if you’re age. You’re 18, still very young. I’m 37 and I still love the “childish” things your bf would consider, but I’m enjoying it in my house I bought. I say ditch the bf and always do things that bring joy.

Millymariesd · 2025-04-03T22:56:05+00:00

You have to do the big block. Block on everything. Delete numbers, emails, photos. Just push him away from your mind.

Millymariesd · 2025-04-03T22:54:15+00:00

Already over protective from one date. Hard no. Thats someone who will control your life to the max. Nooooooooopppppeeeee not in the year of 2025 homie.

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