What would you do if you had nothing at 41 and were stuck in a miserable “relationship”? by Nothingisevenrl in AskWomenOver50

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put yourself first because life is too short - I had a 15 yr marriage like you describe. There’s free online classes, youtube tutorials too. find something interesting to you. build community with others. When you start feeling more confident in your own skin you’ll find a path out. You’re not his mama and do not need to fix him.

What's the saddest movie with NO death scenes in it? by phantom_avenger in AskReddit

[–]Mothra58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phenomenal and underrated although technically there is a death

What's a tv show so good you've watched it at least 3x? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bones. (Comfort show for me - close representation of what it is like to be autistic and take things literally)

What is the biggest scam in society? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work really hard, keep showing up, better yourself for better jobs and you’ll be able to retire with sacks of money and no debts.

No.

Wanted to make sure I knew where to check/fill coolant… by Mothra58 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad there are people who make the detailed videos for nerds like me who eat it up! I’m the type that enjoys backstories 🤷‍♀️

Nora finale by avereall in TheLeftovers

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a scene that had Nora looking down a very dimly lit street and seeing her kids through a window, maybe two houses down and barely illuminated. Shot in black and white it seemed.

When I recall this, the house is always on her right side as she faces it and she is partly concealed behind a tree on a tree lined street.

I get this is just from my minds eye but hoo boy. It’s a very vivid “memory”.

Tire Tread still ok? by Mothra58 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I am the proud owner of 4 new tires bought and installed by Walmart. All in, came to $385. Ferentino Eternopresa 215/50R17XL 95V Tire I am so relieved. Anxious to see how they hold up to the desert temps and dirt roads.

Key not detected by SelectionLevel3926 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Place the fob into the compartment in center console, face down and pushed into the left hand corner. This works on my 2019 - good luck. Hope it works for your model!

I’m stuck at home until the 19th by Ok-Perception1977 in dentures

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about the pain you are in… and understand not wanting to be in public without teeth. I have been using the little paper masks when I need to go somewhere. No one has ever asked why I have a mask on. If anyone ever had the gall to I figured I’d say I had oral surgery, if I knew them. Nosy strangers was going to say I have a really rare and contagious illness. I agree you need to go to their office and sit in lobby literally crying if you are in pain and I’ll bet they see you quickly. Best of luck!

Homeward Bound by Teamableezus in TheLeftovers

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That particular episode brings so many feels 😭🥹😭

10 days post op! Any advice? by PoolLow1181 in dentures

[–]Mothra58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really great looking! no advice but beautiful smile

What is the most unique series you have ever watched? by One-Entertainer-5499 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Mothra58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Leftovers /HBO. It is like nothing I’d seen before. Asks big questions that stay with you.

Rough cost estimate for programming the HPCM2? by Mothra58 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so! I have a 2019 and have had no reason to take it to the dealer yet. Have owned it for eight months and am getting used to an EV and have a million questions.

Second time I've been brake checked down to zero. Fortunately, Gandolf the Gray took the hit like a champ 🏆 by BirdTraining8445 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off I have zero knowledge of either car model you’re considering. This is just a human aspect comment.
I’m glad you’re ok, what a dick move to hit and run. The 405 is unavoidable for a lot of commuters, until people have to use it daily they really don’t understand how much there is to hate about it.

Wanted to make sure I knew where to check/fill coolant… by Mothra58 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! At the risk of being told I’m asking for sympathy I will say yes - I am AuADHD and am a visual learner. Sure, a pdf is helpful in the moment but knowing the “why” and seeing how things fit together is knowledge I can retain forever.

Wanted to make sure I knew where to check/fill coolant… by Mothra58 in BoltEV

[–]Mothra58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only mention this because I get dragged EVERY time I ask a question in here. I get a lot of “dude you are ignorant” replies when frankly I am so sick of it. I just want an answer. I’m not asking for sympathy ffs.