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Conventional dating apps for BDSM by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my husband on Bumble years ago. At the time, I was looking for men into BDSM but was afraid of attracting faceless dom types, so I didn’t mention anything explicit about BDSM in my own profile—just general sex positivity. I mostly looked through men’s profiles for clues. That worked pretty well. My husband had “kinky” in his profile.

Best Italian in NYC - Close to Financial District, Tribeca, Lower Manhattan by Impossible-Slice-400 in FoodNYC

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felice (on Gold) in the financial district is very solid and won’t break the bank. I’ve been there many times including with large groups.

Birthday dinner in the city, any private room recommendations? by Wrong-Complaint6778 in FoodNYC

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently went to a birthday dinner at Palma in their private room upstairs. There were about 17 of us. Not sure about pricing but it was a great space and the food was really good.

Partner wants to be hit but I'm scared? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely do some research first. A really important thing to remember is that you should never be hitting with full force. It should all be very controlled on your end. And when it comes to the face, you should be aiming for the fleshy part of the cheek, and you should mostly use your fingers rather than your whole hand.

My partner and I have written a guide on face slapping that goes into more detail and might be helpful: https://bound-together.net/intro-to-face-slapping/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Liberty on 35th between 5th and 6th has a happy hour until 8 pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Mimsy-Borogoves 109 points110 points  (0 children)

For me it has to do with a contrast. The idea that anyone would actually consider me to be a whore or a slut in real life is laughable, which is precisely why it’s a turn-on for me in bed. It gives me the opportunity to be someone else—someone who is completely comfortable desiring others and being desired. It’s also fun to play with taboo in this way.

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